"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Anyone get off on themselves more than the girl?

BigOlePappy

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Sometimes when I kiss a girl, I am enjoy the fact that they are getting off on me more than I am actually getting off on them.

Is this egotistical or normal?

Usually once a girl shows interest in me, I lose all interest in them. I almost vomit when I touch or smell them, but I LOVE the affection. Its like a drug. I love to play with them... I love stopping the kiss at its climax and leaving them wanting more.

In my adventures with women I am finding more and more than I don't find sexual attraction in most of the women I am with.

I think I am a narcissist.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BigOlePappy

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If I am a narcissist, then it all makes sense. The person I show to the world (one of success and vanity) is not the real me. Plus, I am a die hard perfectionist, and any imperfection can ruin my day.

Also, it means I have low self-esteem.

How do I help myself if this is my case?
 

Pakwah

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I could be rubbing a girl or giving her a body massage, and i don't care how it feels for her....im enjoying exploring her body....its win win. I am a sucker for those brazilian panties....OMG....those are awesome. So hot.
 
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