"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Anyone get off on themselves more than the girl?

BigOlePappy

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Sometimes when I kiss a girl, I am enjoy the fact that they are getting off on me more than I am actually getting off on them.

Is this egotistical or normal?

Usually once a girl shows interest in me, I lose all interest in them. I almost vomit when I touch or smell them, but I LOVE the affection. Its like a drug. I love to play with them... I love stopping the kiss at its climax and leaving them wanting more.

In my adventures with women I am finding more and more than I don't find sexual attraction in most of the women I am with.

I think I am a narcissist.

Thoughts?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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BigOlePappy

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If I am a narcissist, then it all makes sense. The person I show to the world (one of success and vanity) is not the real me. Plus, I am a die hard perfectionist, and any imperfection can ruin my day.

Also, it means I have low self-esteem.

How do I help myself if this is my case?
 

Pakwah

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I could be rubbing a girl or giving her a body massage, and i don't care how it feels for her....im enjoying exploring her body....its win win. I am a sucker for those brazilian panties....OMG....those are awesome. So hot.
 
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