"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Anyone get off on themselves more than the girl?

BigOlePappy

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Sometimes when I kiss a girl, I am enjoy the fact that they are getting off on me more than I am actually getting off on them.

Is this egotistical or normal?

Usually once a girl shows interest in me, I lose all interest in them. I almost vomit when I touch or smell them, but I LOVE the affection. Its like a drug. I love to play with them... I love stopping the kiss at its climax and leaving them wanting more.

In my adventures with women I am finding more and more than I don't find sexual attraction in most of the women I am with.

I think I am a narcissist.

Thoughts?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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BigOlePappy

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If I am a narcissist, then it all makes sense. The person I show to the world (one of success and vanity) is not the real me. Plus, I am a die hard perfectionist, and any imperfection can ruin my day.

Also, it means I have low self-esteem.

How do I help myself if this is my case?
 

Pakwah

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I could be rubbing a girl or giving her a body massage, and i don't care how it feels for her....im enjoying exploring her body....its win win. I am a sucker for those brazilian panties....OMG....those are awesome. So hot.
 
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