"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Anyone from UCLA or UCSD?
- Thread starter madgame
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I prefer San Diego to LA. There is a little less going on but the people are a hell of a lot friendlier.
Oh..and how about the ladiez in S.D. Is it true that it's one of the hotspots ladywise?
(of course I'm not gonna base my decision on that..acutally I made my mind up already, im most likely going to SD)
I'm also looking at going to UCLA this summer for the summer sessions.
I think I'd take pyschology and business....I just have to get the official yes from my old man, but I'll probably be allowed.
Heres the site http://www.summer.ucla.edu/