"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Anyone from UCLA or UCSD?
- Thread starter madgame
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I prefer San Diego to LA. There is a little less going on but the people are a hell of a lot friendlier.
Oh..and how about the ladiez in S.D. Is it true that it's one of the hotspots ladywise?
(of course I'm not gonna base my decision on that..acutally I made my mind up already, im most likely going to SD)
I'm also looking at going to UCLA this summer for the summer sessions.
I think I'd take pyschology and business....I just have to get the official yes from my old man, but I'll probably be allowed.
Heres the site http://www.summer.ucla.edu/