I have an account, but I don't pay or anything. I guess if you pay you can actually email/contact them. Anyway, I'm really thinking about doing it because dang there are some hotties on there. More than you would find on some trashy "free" site.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Anyone ever tried match.com?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Kailex
Master Don Juan
I've actually been using Match.com.
It's somewhat okay, and somewhat a scam. A lot of the "better" looking women on there are either women with expired profiles, don't have a subscription or their standards are WAY too high.
I guess it all depends. I know people that swear by it. Others that condemn it.
It's somewhat okay, and somewhat a scam. A lot of the "better" looking women on there are either women with expired profiles, don't have a subscription or their standards are WAY too high.
I guess it all depends. I know people that swear by it. Others that condemn it.
SmoothTalker
Master Don Juan
Never tried match but did a brief stint on OKCupid. It wasn't the greatest because I live in a fairly small city and was not interested in going far and I was very picky for age/looks/lifestyle, as in I wanted skinny or fit girls within 3 years of my age that were educated and didn't smoke or do drugs or look punk/goth. This greatly reduced my selection, but I did meet about 10 women on there, 5 of whom I have met in person so far. The in-person ones all went really well ending with at least make outs, but I've put that site on the back burner since meeting some new people in real life that I'm more interested in.
I think that's one of the better sites because it's entirely free and from personal experience and what I've heard from others that I know who have used it, it seems to have a lower percentage of crazies than most online dating sites. In fact if you're sick of the bar/club scene, I found it rather refreshing. Also so far I have not encountered a single bot/prostitute/spammer on there.
I think that's one of the better sites because it's entirely free and from personal experience and what I've heard from others that I know who have used it, it seems to have a lower percentage of crazies than most online dating sites. In fact if you're sick of the bar/club scene, I found it rather refreshing. Also so far I have not encountered a single bot/prostitute/spammer on there.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.