I have an account, but I don't pay or anything. I guess if you pay you can actually email/contact them. Anyway, I'm really thinking about doing it because dang there are some hotties on there. More than you would find on some trashy "free" site.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Anyone ever tried match.com?
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Kailex
Master Don Juan
I've actually been using Match.com.
It's somewhat okay, and somewhat a scam. A lot of the "better" looking women on there are either women with expired profiles, don't have a subscription or their standards are WAY too high.
I guess it all depends. I know people that swear by it. Others that condemn it.
It's somewhat okay, and somewhat a scam. A lot of the "better" looking women on there are either women with expired profiles, don't have a subscription or their standards are WAY too high.
I guess it all depends. I know people that swear by it. Others that condemn it.
SmoothTalker
Master Don Juan
Never tried match but did a brief stint on OKCupid. It wasn't the greatest because I live in a fairly small city and was not interested in going far and I was very picky for age/looks/lifestyle, as in I wanted skinny or fit girls within 3 years of my age that were educated and didn't smoke or do drugs or look punk/goth. This greatly reduced my selection, but I did meet about 10 women on there, 5 of whom I have met in person so far. The in-person ones all went really well ending with at least make outs, but I've put that site on the back burner since meeting some new people in real life that I'm more interested in.
I think that's one of the better sites because it's entirely free and from personal experience and what I've heard from others that I know who have used it, it seems to have a lower percentage of crazies than most online dating sites. In fact if you're sick of the bar/club scene, I found it rather refreshing. Also so far I have not encountered a single bot/prostitute/spammer on there.
I think that's one of the better sites because it's entirely free and from personal experience and what I've heard from others that I know who have used it, it seems to have a lower percentage of crazies than most online dating sites. In fact if you're sick of the bar/club scene, I found it rather refreshing. Also so far I have not encountered a single bot/prostitute/spammer on there.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.