"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Anyone ever LJBF a girl they have been banging?

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Without getting into too much detail, I have been seeing a girl for almost 2 months. I have had my red flag detector on the entire time and I have great reason to believe she is a HO who is stroking several other d!cks, not just mine.

The final straw was when she was staying over last weekend getting booty call texts from guys @ 3am. So I got pissed and haven't really talked to her since then.

I was upset because she led me to believe she wasnt banging anyone else but thats beside the point. It was disrespect so I decided to just dump her. Don't dwell on it and drive myself crazy, just end it.

I haven't spoken to her in a few days but I bet she will be calling. I was going to ignore her completely till she goes away but I was thinking about telling her "I think we should just be friends"

LOL, it would be funny. What do you think?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What? You're not spinning plates too?

You don't want to deal with her, just drop her. Simple as that. You want to prove a point? Ok, i guess, if you want to.

Why is this girl under your skin like that?
 

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Who are these corny guys who text women at 3 am? I hope nobody from SS.
 
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scrouds said:
What? You're not spinning plates too?

You don't want to deal with her, just drop her. Simple as that. You want to prove a point? Ok, i guess, if you want to.

Why is this girl under your skin like that?

Because I'm tired of dealing with emotionally messed up psycho women. I can't tolerate it anymore. There comes a point where you just have to drop them. I caught her in a couple lies too. From now on, I will f-ck and chuck these types of women. You have to throw these types out with the trash, before they f-ck YOU up.

Also, in this day and age, I don't trust her not to bring me a disease. It's as simple as that really. You feel me?


Unbridled_Phoenix said:
Who are these corny guys who text women at 3 am? I hope nobody from SS.

I'm sure it was a guy she has already banged. She has probably banged half the country. I cant stand HO's.
 

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As an experiment I LJBFed a girl I was banging once. It just made her more interested in me. She was like, looking up events in town for us to go do together "as friends." After about a month we got back to banging and it was better than before, plus for a while she seemed to want to do all this stuff for me -- cook me meals and all that. No complaints here.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girls like that, they may get excited if you try to let's just be friend her and then keep talking to her, hanging out with her. Maybe. In reality, if she really is the way you suspect, she'll get distracted once you're out of the picture and forget about you.
 
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CatB said:
Girls like that, they may get excited if you try to let's just be friend her and then keep talking to her, hanging out with her. Maybe. In reality, if she really is the way you suspect, she'll get distracted once you're out of the picture and forget about you.

I'm not so sure she will forget me. I know some of the scumbags she has ****ed and they are SCUM. Why do you think she has been calling me every night, over at my place 2 nights a week? I don't even know when she had the time to bang anyone else.

I don't even care about that.

She acts with no class and she disrespected me by texting her guy "friends" right in front of me. I never paid any mind to it, but I flipped that night. And thats enough reason to get rid of her right there.

I actually treated her right and I am a good catch. I promise she will be back. She thinks I am a chump like 90 percent of other guys and will be calling her because I miss her. Good luck with that woman.
 
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Well, she called me DRUNK from some bar last night. She was angry and cussing me out for what I did which was reading her texts in the cell and getting pissed. She made me angry as well, and I told her that I cared when she was texting guys in front of me before, I just didn't show emotion like I cared. She said "why do you do that...."

I told her that she is a fool for thinking these guys want to be her "friend". I told her these guys are just pretending to be your friend because they want to **** you and you play right into it. I said they CAN'T be your friend. They just want you to spread your legs.

Then she was still angry and cussing and then she said "don't you want a family?"

I was like "yeah eventually... You don't even know me. We have been going out for a month. How can you be talking about a family already? This is ridiculous. How do you know I wont stab you or beat you? This is why you have been stuck with scumbags in your past relationships."

Then she started saying "YOU DON'T CARE ABOUT ME YOU NEVER CARED"

Then she hung up. Then she called back a couple times I don't remember what she said. Then she texted "F U Come get me"

I didn't know if she was alone and drunk or what. So I tried to find out her situation. I called her back and she said she is with a bunch of friends. Then a different girl got on the phone and said it was her cousin. I told her cousin she told me she wants me to pick her up. Then her cousin said hold on.... then said "No, she's good".

Then the girl called AGAIN and the music was loud I couldnt hear. She said something about she is coming over and she will call me back in 10 minutes.

Never heard from her after that.

Classic game playing. I thought she probably ****ed some guy from the bar that night but if she was with her friends and family I don't think she would right? Who the hell knows.

This just CONFIRMED that she is low class, low quality, and not lady like at ALL.

This just confirmed my NEXTing of her. This girl has serious, serious issues I'm actually concerned for her safety. I don't want her to end up dead. That's why I want to be her friend at least.

WTF?
 

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Vlad the Impaler said:
This girl has serious, serious issues I'm actually concerned for her safety. I don't want her to end up dead. That's why I want to be her friend at least.

WTF?
Her choice. Better let her just be. It sounds like she loves getting into situations like this. The drama must be like a drug.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Alle_Gory said:

I've ruled her OUT for a relationship, but I don't want to next her completely. I bet she drops the LJBF line on guys she bangs all the time to keep them in line.

Let's turn the tables and see what happens.
 
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