“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Anyone ever LJBF a girl they have been banging?

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Without getting into too much detail, I have been seeing a girl for almost 2 months. I have had my red flag detector on the entire time and I have great reason to believe she is a HO who is stroking several other d!cks, not just mine.

The final straw was when she was staying over last weekend getting booty call texts from guys @ 3am. So I got pissed and haven't really talked to her since then.

I was upset because she led me to believe she wasnt banging anyone else but thats beside the point. It was disrespect so I decided to just dump her. Don't dwell on it and drive myself crazy, just end it.

I haven't spoken to her in a few days but I bet she will be calling. I was going to ignore her completely till she goes away but I was thinking about telling her "I think we should just be friends"

LOL, it would be funny. What do you think?
 

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What? You're not spinning plates too?

You don't want to deal with her, just drop her. Simple as that. You want to prove a point? Ok, i guess, if you want to.

Why is this girl under your skin like that?
 

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Who are these corny guys who text women at 3 am? I hope nobody from SS.
 
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scrouds said:
What? You're not spinning plates too?

You don't want to deal with her, just drop her. Simple as that. You want to prove a point? Ok, i guess, if you want to.

Why is this girl under your skin like that?

Because I'm tired of dealing with emotionally messed up psycho women. I can't tolerate it anymore. There comes a point where you just have to drop them. I caught her in a couple lies too. From now on, I will f-ck and chuck these types of women. You have to throw these types out with the trash, before they f-ck YOU up.

Also, in this day and age, I don't trust her not to bring me a disease. It's as simple as that really. You feel me?


Unbridled_Phoenix said:
Who are these corny guys who text women at 3 am? I hope nobody from SS.

I'm sure it was a guy she has already banged. She has probably banged half the country. I cant stand HO's.
 

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As an experiment I LJBFed a girl I was banging once. It just made her more interested in me. She was like, looking up events in town for us to go do together "as friends." After about a month we got back to banging and it was better than before, plus for a while she seemed to want to do all this stuff for me -- cook me meals and all that. No complaints here.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Girls like that, they may get excited if you try to let's just be friend her and then keep talking to her, hanging out with her. Maybe. In reality, if she really is the way you suspect, she'll get distracted once you're out of the picture and forget about you.
 
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CatB said:
Girls like that, they may get excited if you try to let's just be friend her and then keep talking to her, hanging out with her. Maybe. In reality, if she really is the way you suspect, she'll get distracted once you're out of the picture and forget about you.

I'm not so sure she will forget me. I know some of the scumbags she has ****ed and they are SCUM. Why do you think she has been calling me every night, over at my place 2 nights a week? I don't even know when she had the time to bang anyone else.

I don't even care about that.

She acts with no class and she disrespected me by texting her guy "friends" right in front of me. I never paid any mind to it, but I flipped that night. And thats enough reason to get rid of her right there.

I actually treated her right and I am a good catch. I promise she will be back. She thinks I am a chump like 90 percent of other guys and will be calling her because I miss her. Good luck with that woman.
 
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Well, she called me DRUNK from some bar last night. She was angry and cussing me out for what I did which was reading her texts in the cell and getting pissed. She made me angry as well, and I told her that I cared when she was texting guys in front of me before, I just didn't show emotion like I cared. She said "why do you do that...."

I told her that she is a fool for thinking these guys want to be her "friend". I told her these guys are just pretending to be your friend because they want to **** you and you play right into it. I said they CAN'T be your friend. They just want you to spread your legs.

Then she was still angry and cussing and then she said "don't you want a family?"

I was like "yeah eventually... You don't even know me. We have been going out for a month. How can you be talking about a family already? This is ridiculous. How do you know I wont stab you or beat you? This is why you have been stuck with scumbags in your past relationships."

Then she started saying "YOU DON'T CARE ABOUT ME YOU NEVER CARED"

Then she hung up. Then she called back a couple times I don't remember what she said. Then she texted "F U Come get me"

I didn't know if she was alone and drunk or what. So I tried to find out her situation. I called her back and she said she is with a bunch of friends. Then a different girl got on the phone and said it was her cousin. I told her cousin she told me she wants me to pick her up. Then her cousin said hold on.... then said "No, she's good".

Then the girl called AGAIN and the music was loud I couldnt hear. She said something about she is coming over and she will call me back in 10 minutes.

Never heard from her after that.

Classic game playing. I thought she probably ****ed some guy from the bar that night but if she was with her friends and family I don't think she would right? Who the hell knows.

This just CONFIRMED that she is low class, low quality, and not lady like at ALL.

This just confirmed my NEXTing of her. This girl has serious, serious issues I'm actually concerned for her safety. I don't want her to end up dead. That's why I want to be her friend at least.

WTF?
 

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Vlad the Impaler said:
This girl has serious, serious issues I'm actually concerned for her safety. I don't want her to end up dead. That's why I want to be her friend at least.

WTF?
Her choice. Better let her just be. It sounds like she loves getting into situations like this. The drama must be like a drug.
 
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Alle_Gory said:

I've ruled her OUT for a relationship, but I don't want to next her completely. I bet she drops the LJBF line on guys she bangs all the time to keep them in line.

Let's turn the tables and see what happens.
 
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