"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Anyone ever got caught "being parked"??

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Over the years I had a few close calls with police as I was getting physical with a chick in the car. I was always able to zip up fast before the police officer could approach my car.

My question is this: If a cop ever catches you in the act of having sex, can or will he arrest and charge you?? and if he does then what is the charge??

If anyone has any stories of being caught in the act in public by police, please share.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lol.

I doubt its a crime. What would they write on the ticket? "Engaging in intercourse within a vehicle". No, I don't think so.

As long as you aren't parked in an open place, or like say, in a place where lots of little kids could walk by and see, I don't think there's a problem. Just don't be all up in the windshield. Go in the backseat.

Heh, the cop probably just wants to see some boobies.
 

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Tinted windows.

And technically, you aren't in public if you're inside your car with the windows up and the doors closed. You're inside your property.

I think the real reason that the cops are approaching your car is because, its weird to see a car in the middle of nowhere, that's running, and rocking back and forth. They're more concerned about rape and murder than two teens having a little fun.
 

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I accidentally busted a guy jerking off in a car in a deserted car park a few weeks ago. Was speeding down the road at night and a cop followed us, so we pulled into the cricket ground car park and pretended to be pulling over to make a call. Our lights were trained on this car parked in the semi-woodsy corner of the lot and the cops went to check on the guy. I feel bad now, but it was pretty funny at the time.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ace of Flames said:
Tinted windows.
Tinted windows are illegal here.

Ace of Flames said:
And technically, you aren't in public if you're inside your car with the windows up and the doors closed. You're inside your property.
You are just guessing but if you don't have tinted windows, does anyone know if getting caught is an actual crime?
 

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No, I've never been caught "in the act" but I betcha $5 that there's a provincal law on the books about public indecency. If it's a secluded place, it's unlikely but...I would rather be indecent inside a room with walls. :D
 

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almost got caught on top of the mall with my current girlfriend. Close call but did not start to do anything at all.

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I've gotten caught fooling around with a girl in my college campus parking lot, but it didn't get to the point of sex when the cop surprised us. All of our clothes were on (minus her bra, but her shirt was on), so he didn't have any grounds for arrest/ticketing, but the dork desided to lecture us about protected sex lmao

I've had sex in public several times but never gotten caught. That was the closest call.
 

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a friend of mine in high school got caught parking. the police called both their parents to come down in order for him to release them. the officer told her father that he saw her blue panties and was indecent. her father said "thats weird cause she left the house in green panties" and took his daughter home.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ace of Flames said:
And technically, you aren't in public if you're inside your car with the windows up and the doors closed. You're inside your property.
If that was the case, I could have sex in the middle of rush hour traffic, but it's not. If you're on public property, you can be charged with PUBLIC indecency. I've heard multiple reports of people being arrested for indecent exposure from their cars, most of them believed to be pedophiles. It can happen, most of the time the cop will just tell you to get out of there and take it home.
 

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a guy I know got caught getting head from his girlfriend in a secluded area in his car.

as they were both under 18 at the time their parents had to pick them up at the police station. I felt bad for him because that's damn embarrassing, but still...so funny.
 

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DJDamage said:
True. But sometimes things tend to be spontineous. As a matter of fact, I learned that many women get off in making out/fvcking in car because the fear of getting caught excites them.
Not just women lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I have been. I was in Mexico and had to bribe the policeman to let me go. Only cost 20 USD.
 

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Yeah I'm not sure how the law goes in the U.S. but in Australia, being inside your car parked on the street or some other public area is considered being 'in public'.

So yes, you can be charged :).
 
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