"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Anyone ever get involved in an auto accident?

xsonik

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This ***** I got into an accident with had a lawyer contact me, telling me to forward that letter to my insurance company. Now first of all, my car war damaged more than hers, and this accident was 3 months ago! I am calling bull**** on this one. She was offered medical attention and declined it. Do you guys have any suggestions for me? I am kind of scared, because I am not rich. Any advice would help.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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diablo

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Suggestions? Sure. Get a lawyer - you aren't going to be able to do this on your own. Another thing... it doesn't matter how damaged your car was compared to hers if the accident was your fault (which it sounds like it was).
 

ohiofutballa

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I was recently in a DUI accident...my BAC was only .06 but im underage so its still a DUI. I Payed 2,000 for a lawyer and he got 3 charges dropped to 1 and the charge was Failure to control.

So
 

Fred Da Head

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I've been in three car accidents and never had to deal with lawyers, (just the cops, they had to close the fast lane of the highway to get my car out) but I think diablo's right.. Get yourself a lawyer, at least to just know what the hell's going on, and if the ***** has a case.

By the way, details on the accident would be nice, to know if you might be in trouble or not.

EDIT: (forgot to ask) Was there a police report for the accident? If so, what did it say?
 

xsonik

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i was turning into a two way street, i was stopped at a stop sign. there was a car parked on the damn corner to my right. i couldnt see past it, so i crept up. left lane clear, crept up further. then i got hit. police report didnt blame anyone, both of us refused medical attention
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ken785

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car accidents suck ass bro especially when its your fault...i wrecked my beutiful z3 last month....got very depressed...since it was my 2nd accident..and many speeding tickets make my insurance FVCKED!! recently got a insurance quote and the say its gonig to be $560 a month to cover me 1 way through farmers...
 
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