"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Anyone ever get fractional laser or Fraxel?

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So I had IPL done just over a year ago. Got pretty decent results with the nurse that did it. However not all the freckles went away and a few cameback so I decided to try a couple other providers closer by since this one was an hour away.

Anyway, the last two places I went to for IPL I had hardly any difference! Literally nothing peeled off and after a few hours my face wasn't even red anymore. Unlike the first one I had that was heavy hitting.

The other day I had IPL done again, $550 and again no peeling or coffee grounds taking place! The lady doing it said the second treatment she will go higher setting. However this second treatment will cost $550!

I'm thinking is it better to just get the Fraxel or Fractional laser done? I know it cost more but it only takes one or two treatments I've read versus IPL that takes several.

I will say WOW the IPL rates at all the providers here in FL went up this year in price! I compared them to places like my hometown of St. Louis and even NYC and they're not charging as much.

From what I've read on Realself a lot if providers don't use a high enough setting. I gotta wonder if they do that in order to get you to keep coming back.

Everything I've read about Fraxel or the Fractional lasers say it's more intensive and gets the job done in less treatments and better results. However the downtime with the gunk face is longer vs IPL.

There was a couple posters on here who said they had Fraxel done but can't remember who.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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