"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
anyone ever dated a girl with daddy issues
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
usernamedox11
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Infern0
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They can be a lot of fun, if you look at them as just a hook up and don't get invested, they will endlessly seek your approval and attention.
The trap is, they will attempt to put you into AFC mode and then the games begin!
If you can handle them they are great but avoid becoming their therapist, these girls do need ACTUAL therapy but that's not your issue and you can't do anything about it.
Just have fun with them.
Skyline
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A suicide would be a little on the extreme side for me... There's this girl I know on Facebook whom her father committed suicide when she was like 10 and in the note he blamed his family. She's now suicidal, sometimes homeless, gets into trouble... It's just a bad time for her and anyone else who would dare go near.
Neglecting father I can do but a suicide is something I wouldn't be able to handle in a girl just because it would effect me in a more negative way than positive.
Oh and a molestation would be a no no as well.
Bible_Belt
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I often wonder if that is why the sex is so good. :rockon:
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.