"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
anyone ever dated a girl with daddy issues
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
usernamedox11
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Infern0
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They can be a lot of fun, if you look at them as just a hook up and don't get invested, they will endlessly seek your approval and attention.
The trap is, they will attempt to put you into AFC mode and then the games begin!
If you can handle them they are great but avoid becoming their therapist, these girls do need ACTUAL therapy but that's not your issue and you can't do anything about it.
Just have fun with them.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
A suicide would be a little on the extreme side for me... There's this girl I know on Facebook whom her father committed suicide when she was like 10 and in the note he blamed his family. She's now suicidal, sometimes homeless, gets into trouble... It's just a bad time for her and anyone else who would dare go near.
Neglecting father I can do but a suicide is something I wouldn't be able to handle in a girl just because it would effect me in a more negative way than positive.
Oh and a molestation would be a no no as well.
Bible_Belt
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I often wonder if that is why the sex is so good. :rockon:
DaddyLongShanks
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.