"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Anyone ever been a part of a fraternity? I'm joining one.

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No man, go ahead and join if you want to be stripped of all individuality and 99% of your personality. There are other easier ways to meet people and form lasting relationships that don't involve skunk ass keg beer.

Personally, all frats are good for is giving cheap ass beer to freshmen on opening weekend IMO.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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doctoroxygen said:
Either way, they get a lot of chicks :-/ So it's probably a good move, original poster.
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Well, they have access to the hottest chicks...but it's still far from a guarantee.

I knew one guy in college, kinda funny-looking (big schnozz) tall, lanky guy who joined, probably with those hopes. Sadly, I don't think he ever actually got laid, though. Therefore, wasn't it kinda a big waste of time & money?
 
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Yea I still think there's better ways to meet people. AKA the dorms. Most of the sorority girls live in the dorms their first year anyway, so why not get the best of both worlds?
 
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I remember leaving my Ph.D. defense, and going to a bar to celebrate.

A chick looked at my suit, big smile, and said "What frat are you in?" (Thinking I was coming back from a formal dance.)

"Oh, I'm dressed like this because I did my defense to become a doctor."

"So you're not in a frat!?" (Turns and leaves.)
 
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Phyzzle said:
I remember leaving my Ph.D. defense, and going to a bar to celebrate.

A chick looked at my suit, big smile, and said "What frat are you in?" (Thinking I was coming back from a formal dance.)

"Oh, I'm dressed like this because I did my defense to become a doctor."

"So you're not in a frat!?" (Turns and leaves.)
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HAHAHAHAHA awesome. What's your Ph.D. in?

A good answer to that is "Sigma Diock, baby."
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Physics, hence the Phyzzle.

I'm in "I Tappa Kegga"!
 
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