"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Anyone ever been a part of a fraternity? I'm joining one.

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No man, go ahead and join if you want to be stripped of all individuality and 99% of your personality. There are other easier ways to meet people and form lasting relationships that don't involve skunk ass keg beer.

Personally, all frats are good for is giving cheap ass beer to freshmen on opening weekend IMO.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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doctoroxygen said:
Either way, they get a lot of chicks :-/ So it's probably a good move, original poster.
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Well, they have access to the hottest chicks...but it's still far from a guarantee.

I knew one guy in college, kinda funny-looking (big schnozz) tall, lanky guy who joined, probably with those hopes. Sadly, I don't think he ever actually got laid, though. Therefore, wasn't it kinda a big waste of time & money?
 
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Yea I still think there's better ways to meet people. AKA the dorms. Most of the sorority girls live in the dorms their first year anyway, so why not get the best of both worlds?
 
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I remember leaving my Ph.D. defense, and going to a bar to celebrate.

A chick looked at my suit, big smile, and said "What frat are you in?" (Thinking I was coming back from a formal dance.)

"Oh, I'm dressed like this because I did my defense to become a doctor."

"So you're not in a frat!?" (Turns and leaves.)
 
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Phyzzle said:
I remember leaving my Ph.D. defense, and going to a bar to celebrate.

A chick looked at my suit, big smile, and said "What frat are you in?" (Thinking I was coming back from a formal dance.)

"Oh, I'm dressed like this because I did my defense to become a doctor."

"So you're not in a frat!?" (Turns and leaves.)
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HAHAHAHAHA awesome. What's your Ph.D. in?

A good answer to that is "Sigma Diock, baby."
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Physics, hence the Phyzzle.

I'm in "I Tappa Kegga"!
 
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