"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Anyone ever bang a woman this hot?

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Ok... I found that thread you're talking about. You are definitely attractive, but not gorgeous. Pretty much the point I was making. It's gonna be more difficult for you to bang hotties. Not to say its impossible, but it won't be easy. I can see the kind of women you'd attract just from those photos.

Gorgeous women are very shallow and picky when it comes to looks. I've dated girls who flat out said they rejected other guys for not being "hot" enough; they have high standards when it comes to looks; and other shallow crap. These girls are all about the looks, the party lifestyle, and the sex. Can't have one without the other. They won't date or bother with you if you're not hot or popular, but all they want from you is sex. Shallow, indeed. But that's how these hoes operate. All they talk about is "hot" and "not hot". And those are the standards they live by. Even when they compliment you - its to say "you're hot; wanna ****?"

Think about it from your perspective - then add in the fact that people attract what they are. You want these hot, shallow, skanky party girls to have sex with... That's EXACTLY what these girls want from their men. That's who they go after. You see that site hot chicks with douche bags? Exactly... They go after what they are. I prefer to call it douche baguettes with douche bags, personally. Ha ha.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She is a straight up milf, holy hell lol. hahahahaa lol Jesus Chr*st lol. She actually looks familiar. You can tell she has fake ta ta's, no doubt. They probably cost her 15,000 dollars, so she wants a return of investment by posting these pictures so the guys will be chasing her IMO.
 

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Gorgeous women are very shallow and picky when it comes to looks.
Meh. So not true. Most of them are severely insecure. You are making them the prize. Read some shyte on here already and pay attention in the field.

They be front'n.
 

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Yes, but they only show that insecure side to guys they choose to show it to. To guys they aren't interested in dating/banging, they act like they're the sh1t.

I feel I look "too nice" for these women even though I'm not nice at all. I'm a good person all things considered I guess, but I have quite a mean streak and am not some boring, good guy. It's like those women see me and assume that since I look a certain way. (And yes I work out, that doesn't make a difference if it isn't really obvious and you don't have that big frame.)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Johnnyventana said:
Meh. So not true. Most of them are severely insecure. You are making them the prize. Read some shyte on here already and pay attention in the field.

They be front'n.
So very true, rather. Just because someone is insecure or has low self-esteem - doesn't mean they're not conceited, shallow, stuck up, or high maintenance. In fact, because of their insecurities and emptiness - they run their lives off their egos. That's why they are so desperate for attention, try to get in with the popular crowd, ***** themselves around, dress like hookers, plaster their faces with make-up, want the trophy guy to show off with, feel good enough to land such a guy, etc.

They act snobby, stuck up, and all these things because they're insecure. That's why they want the hottest guy, and turn their nose up at everyone below their level. They want to be of "high class"; to be accepted, and be considered "good enough". Some of them are simply delusional; let this stuff get to their head, and believe their own bull****. Thus, it becomes a permanent result.

It is a front in the sense that they do it because they're insecure, but it doesn't change the facts of who they are. It's also part of their lifestyle, and way of being. It's who they are. It all goes together, really.

It's just like the jerk who's insecure and has low self-esteem. He brings other people down to feel better about himself, tries to date the hottest women to show off with, acts like he doesn't care, has a huge ego, is arrogant, brags about and over-exaggerates his so-called accomplishments, is in competition with everyone, and claims to better than everyone at everything... Even though its all a front, and he's deeply insecure underneath it all - it doesn't change who he is. Same with these stuck up *****es. The fact that they're insecure is simply the cause of this behavior. But, fake as it may be, its still who they are - is it not? And, much like the jerks - these hoes won't change, or stop being fake - because its who they are! Fake *****es are still fake *****es, no?

Why would I need to read **** on here if I already dated and banged these women? I'm not complaining because I can't get them. Not complaining at all, really. I know what they're about already; can't stand them, and don't want them anymore. Just because you're successful with these hoes - doesn't mean they're worth anything. Unless you're referring to the OP, and his frustrations in this area. In which case, discard what was just said.
 
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floydb25 said:
People go after what they feel they can get. A top tier girl is going to go for a top tier guy, and not settle for less. A gorgeous girl will date a gorgeous guy. These girls have tons of options, and can be picky. They look down upon those they deem below their league - avoiding them completely. Even if its not that far away. If they know they can get the best - they will seek after the best, and avoid everyone else. Hence, having their nose up in the air.
Mmm...in my experience I have known less attractive girls to be stuck-up and have high standards- the same ones that laughed at me on the bus just for existing. What's that all about?
 

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floydb25 said:
Maybe its hugely popular because it doesn't exist, eh? More fairytale nonsense from women. Most guys with farms and cowboy boots are old, fat, bald, greasy, and broken. Not like there's a bunch of buff, rugged, pretty boys riding around on horses with their shirts off. Just old married men with no teeth.
The cowboy type definitely exists. But there are probably too few of them to fulfill demand for the fantasy. The town I live in has a large rural area surrounding it, and these guys are around. Of course like I said, they tend to prefer country music, so you're not likely to see them in the clubs. They have their own places to go to, I guess.

Makes sense that the girls would want these guys. What girl wouldn't want to live out in the country on a big plot of land? And just having some sort of image seems to appeal to women. I have a feeling a lot of their land may be inherited.
 

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This HAS to be a troll lol
that chick is hideous!! Fit body i guess, and some real good milk makers but that face man... ugh! plus shes like 40. Maybe she would've been good in her 20's.

I see better and have been with hotter girls than her and i don't live in LA. You just have low standards.
 

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Mmm...in my experience I have known less attractive girls to be stuck-up and have high standards- the same ones that laughed at me on the bus just for existing. What's that all about?
Simple delusion based on perception. Everyone wants to be, and thinks they're of high class - even if they're not. Maybe they have options, are easy, have men lie to get in their pants (average chicks are easier to bang, or so I hear), they hang around with the "hot" crowd and think they're hot themselves, are social and engaging and therefore mingle / flirt a lot... Any number of reasons, really.

I've known girls like this. Used to call them notties. Same **** personalities, attitudes, high standards, mindsets, and lifestyles of a hottie - without the looks of one. What a winner these girls weren't. If you're gonna be a waste of space - might as well be good-looking, eh? But, nope. Just an average pile of dog**** who thought they were better than everyone else.

These same girls would complain that men only wanted them for sex, so they came to the completely false conclusion that it was because they were so hot. It's almost laughable at how pathetic, delusional, and up their own ass they were. But, if men are horny and desperate - I guess they'll say anything to get some. Even not-so attractive girls still have options and get around.

All of this stuff gets to their head, and they start to think they're something special; look down upon those deemed below them, pre-rejecting them before they can get any ideas, assuming everyone is checking out and wants them, bragging about their so-called looks, acting like stuck up ****s, etc. I've known a lot of them to be part of the same crowd, so maybe their stupidity, shallowness, and snobby attitudes are contagious. Or they're simply just delusional, and think they're something they're not.

Either way, these girls aren't worth a damn. It's best to let them think they're some queen bee, and avoid them completely. Ohhhh... These "hotties" just hate that. Ha ha ha.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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A lot of the time 'hotties' bear no relation to my circles. I live in part of southern England which is happy but not much action.

In my life women were either my teachers back in school days who put red notes all over my English essay, the 'frumpy' ones that others in my class made fun of, not realising that that is what you're stuck with. That's reality.

In later life many women I meet who helped me with my life and actually cared where I am heading in life don't often meet the 'standard'. It's rare to virtually never to find a 'hottie'.
 

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rhcp83 said:
Anyone actually bang a girl this hot?
Yep, pretty much every girl I have ever been with including my wife is hotter than that.

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And if you did really bang or date a girl like this, how did you meet her/attract her etc. ?
I used the theories, ideas, and practices preached on this site every single day. If you are still looking for some sort of "magic" you the living definition of a horse that has been brought to water but still won't drink.
 

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The_Crack said:
This HAS to be a troll...
No, I've responded to RCHP's posts in the past. He doesn't respond to advice well. Not interested in learning much yet.

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I see better and have been with hotter girls than her and i don't live in LA.
I live in a small city and I see hotter chicks every single day.
 

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No, I've responded to RCHP's posts in the past. He doesn't respond to advice well. Not interested in learning much yet.



I live in a small city and I see hotter chicks every single day.
Well looking back on her pic, I was just blinded by her boobs. Take away the boobs and she's some 6. I just happen to like big well proportioned boobs.

And the thing is, it's all relative anyway. One man's 10 is another man's 6. You could say "I banged a 10" and show her pics, and not everyone would be in agreement that she was a 10. Some like blondes, brunettes, redheads, asians, black women, chubby women, skinny women etc..

But I really call bs on MOST guys on this site, given the majority of "why hasn't she responded to my texts?" posts, that guys have even banged a woman that looks like that, not that she's super hot.

Also, she doesn't care that some dungeons and dragons guys on a website don't think she's hot, as far as she's concerned she's a 10 because of the attention she gets.
 

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Not my type at all. Nice boobs and all, but would gotta put a bag over her face.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I put her photo on Hot or Not. The 42 year old with cleavage from the OP was rated 9.2.



So on one hand, I offer credit where it's due to rhcp83. On the other hand, Hot or Not is extremely suspect now. Attached is a girl who I think was rated accurately at (currently) 9.3.

http://hotornot.com/rate/profile/naturalkirk
 
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