"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Anyone ever bang a woman this hot?

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Blackmm said:
Nice tits but at her age, she has some serious miles on her.
It's so funny Blackmm because she (at 42) is our age, yet it's true.

Studies show that any man who could date 20 years younger would. She might have been a 9.5 - back in the late 1980's.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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rhcp83 said:
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=34704963

A lot of HB9.5 talk or whatever on here. Anyone actually bang a girl this hot? Please no liars or "yeah my girlfriend looks like that" guys. And if you did really bang or date a girl like this, how did you meet her/attract her etc. ?
Ummm yeah, many, and they were much hotter. That girl isn't even pretty imo. Here is my gf of 3 years, bang her every day. :) She is 100x better looking than that girl. Met her at the grocery store. Live together.

http://imageshack.us/photo/my-images/853/rosehalloween.jpg/

http://imageshack.us/photo/my-images/16/rose2mi.jpg/
 

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I agree she isn't that hot. She looks pretty old in the face, honestly.
She's kept herself in shape, which is good at 42.

She has large breasts, but I would bet money that she's had a boob job.
I prefer natural. In fact, I bet that's why she's taking her picture in the mirror, to show off her boob job.
 

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DonJuan_DeRosco said:
Don't confuse attractiveness with big t!ts!


LMFAO!!! Took the words out of my mouth. Chick is beat in the face. Although I would def motorboat that rack any day of the week.





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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DonJuan_DeRosco said:
Don't confuse attractiveness with big t!ts!
lol the first thing that came to mind when i saw that pic. her boobs popped out before her face.

yes i've done hotter. but, i wouldn't mind doing her. ain't no shame in my game. lol
 

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Her photos are not very clear, I reckon women who do that on dating sites aren't confident in their appearance, hence they need to obscure it somewhat.

She is OK, best feature from those pictures is her tits. I'd do her, but not to me stellar in looks.
 

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rhcp83 said:
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=34704963

A lot of HB9.5 talk or whatever on here. Anyone actually bang a girl this hot? Please no liars or "yeah my girlfriend looks like that" guys. And if you did really bang or date a girl like this, how did you meet her/attract her etc. ?
Shes alright. I wouldnt put her in hot category. Here tits are nice though.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Cordon your gf is asian so that takes off 3 or 4 points immediately and she's skinny. I like T n A not coat hangers.
 

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Not a hater or anything but the vast majority of Asian girls have flat asses and small p***ies. Give me some ramming room.
 

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lol at the "she's a 4" response and the "she's 40 so she doesn't count" responses. who wouldn't want her for a wife compared to 99.9 percent of women her age?

also, it doesn't matter what YOU think of her rating, it matters what she thinks. i had a run in with this bartender that to most guys wouldn't rate any higher than a 7/7.5ish...cute sure but not wow hot by any guy's scale...but because she dresses fancy and gets hit on as a bartender and grew up in a small town where she looked better by comparison, she thinks she personally thinks she's a 10.

that's why the rating system, except for discussion, is kind of pointless. you got 5/6s (by most guy's standards) that think they're 10s because they dress up fancy and hang out with hotter women.

the bottom line is, if a guy were to approach her, even online (i'm good looking haven't got a response) she's probably going to want the musclehead/man in uniform/cop/DJ (disc jockey)/cowboy type of guy. she doesn't care how much "game" you have or that you've read david deangelo.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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rhcp83 said:
who wouldn't want her for a wife compared to 99.9 percent of women her age?
Trust me brother. She's not looking to get wifed up. She already was or still is. She's only looking to get fvcked by the hottest studs on there. True story.

Off her profile:

Marital Status: Separated

Profession: nurse (Ever notice how many chicks on POF are nurses?) She's looking for a bada$$ to 'tame'. She's a 'caregiver'.

For: Friends = Fvck buddy.

have a serious job but like to play when in my own home.

(I can 'host' in my own home. No need to worry about my seperation..)

I'm ALL IN A NUTSHELL. (She's insane. Trust me on that.)


First Date: I cant discribe this without having had contact in some way with the other peraon. The date would have to fit both desires

"desires" = If you and I like each others looks let's fvck in mine and my husbands bed.

Check out her pictures. All in her bedroom showing her nice big t1ts and her pink bra. Get the picture now?

"Want her for a wife?" LOL! POF chicks are ALL damaged goods looking for the best looking guy to fvck them senseless and go back to riding the c0ck carosel....because unfortunately...that's all they know.
 

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Oh, no I don't want her as a wife. Just would love to bang a woman that looks like that.

And I agree with you...she's on there for hot studs, which is why I was making the point it doesn't matter that some guy on a how to pick up woman site thinks she's 4 or 5 or 6...she thinks she's hot sh1t and CAN attract the bad boy/construction worker/musclehead type.

I guess I'm wondering, as a good looking guy but a regular looking guy with no prototypical look that hot women respond to, how do I get a woman like that for sex in real life or online?

I posted my pics on here and was told by quite a few guys that I look good, but that type has NEVER showed interest in me. I work out (for myself, enjoy it) but will never have a Van Damme type body, just look good with a shirt off in the summer when I'm in shape. Never get checked out by any women etc. .
 

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rhcp83 said:
I guess I'm wondering, as a good looking guy but a regular looking guy with no prototypical look that hot women respond to, how do I get a woman like that for sex in real life or online?

I posted my pics on here and was told by quite a few guys that I look good, but that type has NEVER showed interest in me. I work out (for myself, enjoy it) but will never have a Van Damme type body, just look good with a shirt off in the summer when I'm in shape. Never get checked out by any women etc. .
First you are worried about chicks looks and your look.

Forget that crap.

Work out obviously.

Dress well.

Look and be the best you can be for YOURSELF.

Talk to all types of chicks like a NORMAL person. Fvck all this DJ ninja tactic robotic crap. Just keep the good tips in mind. Most dudes overANALize on this nonsense.The more chicks you talk to the more you become used to all of them and the easier it gets. Once you get used to talking to more and more chicks WITHOUT using your d1ck for your brain the smoother you become with them. Just remember good solid advice when dealing with them.

When you get to the point where you see them as just a chick and NOT as someone you hot or not/HAVE to fvck or not you become Zen like to all their crap, games etc. (chicks start thinking: Damn the pvssy power doesn't work on this dude..He must get a lot of girls.) Then it makes them curious. THEN you can work on certain ones. They act up. You drop them. PERIOD. At that point you'll be used to talking to massive amounts of girls and will have no problems meeting more if one or more act like an clowns.

I don't need 'plates' as a crutch. Has never stopped me from meeting new and more chicks by talking to them like a NORMAL person who is immune to their nonsense and laughs it off while keeping my cool. True story.
 

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For me, this is about attraction, not ego or validation or impressing anyone with the women I get. I only started dating in 2009, and have dated/been on dates with some very pretty women, but women that I had no lust for whatsoever. Just looked too "goody goody" and while I liked them as people and they were cute/pretty enough to date, lusted after women like the one in the thread even if just for sex.

In fact, I'd probably say two of the highlights of my women related life involved lap dances with strippers because both were my type sexually and even having their bare bodies pressed against me with no touching allowed was more exciting than making out with/touching the breasts and a** of the women I dated/fingering/bjs etc. .

I'm a very visual guy. When I see a perfectly sculpted body (by my standards) it's one of the most beautiful things in the world.

I see a lot of women that other guys would do anything to do and because they're too thin by my standards or just don't do it for me, I wouldn't even go on a date with them or bang them if they were all over me.

This is about finding someone my type to do.

Women can be fun to hang around, but even the low maintenance/goody too shoes ones are full of drama in my experience, just not as much and different kind of drama, but still drama nonetheless.

I value being single and not loving any woman other than my mother. I just would like to have wild sex/fun times or even just a one night stand with the type of women I lust after.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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