"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Anyone esle have this prob
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Master Don Juan
too much drama
how old is she ?
I also noticed that when she spends the night at my crib she will tell her parents she is staying at one of her girls places.
thats normal. all chicks do that.
she wont let me pick her up or drop her off at her house
there is a million reasons for this
maybe her dad is crazy and she isn't allowed to have a boyfriend and if he found out he'd kill her
some parents are strict. maybe she just doesn't want the hassles and " sex talks " if she tells them she has a boyfriend
maybe she has another boyfriend and doesn't want her parents to see she has two boyfriends because she would be caught cheating ***seen this one alot lol***
there are numerous other reasons
ASK HER in a direct manner
and don't take it personal because she is doing it for you
ie. lying to her parents just to be with you
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**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
Ok, been dating this ghirl for 6 weeks now, and she wont let me pick her up or drop her off at her house.
I think the problem iss because I am black, and her and her parents are white, and I think she is trying to hide our relationship. Never called her on it.
I also noticed that when she spends the night at my crib she will tell her parents she is staying at one of her girls places.
I mean, I have hooked up with white girls before, but it was mostly hookin up at parties, or at college, so I never really had to deal with the family issues.
My last girlfriend was Tahi and her parents loved me
You guys think this is the case, or am I readin too much into it
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I have been through the same thing with non black females.
The way I see it, the daughter is down with the IR thing, and shee is cool, but her parents be livin in the deep south KKK mentality.
Daddy don't want to think about little Suzie suckin on a black one
I have been down that road. Girls all up in your **** at parties. Suckin on your balls, swallin your load, givin you the 3 am booty call, but just dont come to/call my house.
F that ****. what I say is take her out, let her suck you off, then go home and give daddy a kiss goodnight on the cheek
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That is funny ****, I can see it now
Suzie: Goodnight daddy, I am going to get ready for bed now, I am tired (gives him a kiss)
Daddy: Goodnight honey, where were you anyway.
Suzie: I was out with my boyfriend Jamal, I was just giving him head out in the driveway. He came in my mouth, and I want to go brush my teeth. BTW, you may want to go wash your face, I think I got a little of his load on your cheek.
Daddy: Thinking to himself "**** I better go wash this off before I go to bed and my wife kisses me and gets and accidental taste of black seed you know they do say once you go Black....."
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Seriously thou bro, I have been with a couple of white chicks whose father's skin would crall if he knew what his little suzie was doin to me in the backseat
white people crack me up.
SOme are so racist, then you have the flip side like this story:
I posted on here a few weeks ago about this white dude that I met at the gym that wanted me to bang his wife. We had a long discussion about it on this board.
I did it, it was a little strange, but I guess they have a whloe swing group of this ****. This dude has about 5 or 6 white buddies (mostly professional white male types on Asain guy) that like watchin their wives screw black guys. (most of the wives are cute too)
He as asked me top go a couple of more times, but I turned him down.
Is that directed at me or RDX?
I can see your point, but the problem doesn't lie entirely within us. If these girls see us only as sexual objects, and don't want to take us home to mommy and daddy, why just not bang the hell out of her and use her for what she is a black **** slt.
Yes I know the girls, and they do exist.
Not only that, some of them genuinly do like us, but their parents will never approve, so they try to maintain both relationships, ours and the one she has with her parents.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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You and I know, that some white girls love us, some prefer us, some hate us, and to some, color doesn't matter at all.
I have banged them all, yes even the ones that hate us.
I will tell you one thing racism spewed out of the mouth of a young white teenage Suburban girl is usually the first sign of attraction (lol). according to the rules of a DJ all girls want the jerk. Well we are the biggest jerks of all.
I have had white faters who hated me for screwin their daughter on the couch and having him and his drunk white wife stumble in during the middle of it after a night out and have his wife say say" dam honey did you see the sise of his co-k, I guess it is true"
I dated this one girl, whose mother knew about us, and her father didn't and the mother kept askin her daughter is it true what they say about black men.
I have seen it all.
Show up at her house, and go to pops like a man and tell him I have been dating your daughter (don't mention you have been banging her). Tell him that for some reason she doesn't want you to come to her house. Tell him you don't like sneaking around,a nd that you like her and want you her and her family to becomfortable with the relationship.
Dont mention race, because as LIT said it may just be pops dont like her to date anyone.
He will have to view you as a man then
if they are young they like us, but when they get older they realise the truth of society and think of thier future, i agree with you can have sex nothing wrong with that but dont forget who you are. iv learned this many times even after i was in denial when i was in my teens dawg. anybody that dosnt show you to her parents you have no future with, so i say enjoy bro. thats all there is to it.