You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
you are in denial and youll learn the hard way like many fools learn later on.Originally posted by rdxshooter
Big dont even entertain this fool
You and I know, that some white girls love us, some prefer us, some hate us, and to some, color doesn't matter at all.
I have banged them all, yes even the ones that hate us.
I will tell you one thing racism spewed out of the mouth of a young white teenage Suburban girl is usually the first sign of attraction (lol). according to the rules of a DJ all girls want the jerk. Well we are the biggest jerks of all.
I have had white faters who hated me for screwin their daughter on the couch and having him and his drunk white wife stumble in during the middle of it after a night out and have his wife say say" dam honey did you see the sise of his co-k, I guess it is true"
I dated this one girl, whose mother knew about us, and her father didn't and the mother kept askin her daughter is it true what they say about black men.
I have seen it all.
if they are young they like us, but when they get older they realise the truth of society and think of thier future, i agree with you can have sex nothing wrong with that but dont forget who you are. iv learned this many times even after i was in denial when i was in my teens dawg. anybody that dosnt show you to her parents you have no future with, so i say enjoy bro. thats all there is to it.Originally posted by bigshovel
Skeelo,
Is that directed at me or RDX?
I can see your point, but the problem doesn't lie entirely within us. If these girls see us only as sexual objects, and don't want to take us home to mommy and daddy, why just not bang the hell out of her and use her for what she is a black **** slt.
Yes I know the girls, and they do exist.
Not only that, some of them genuinly do like us, but their parents will never approve, so they try to maintain both relationships, ours and the one she has with her parents.