Killakittie
Senior Don Juan
Had a bartender bring you a drink and tell you it's from that cute girl sitting a ways down from you?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
daddymonsterpoodle
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Nope. How do they know it is you?
Killakittie
Senior Don Juan
I had to change the question but let's just say they showed me.
PantyWhisperer
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Never happened to me. Would be great if it did. It would certainly set you up with a strong amount of initial confidence.
Killakittie
Senior Don Juan
Only happened once to me...
When the bartender set a glass of Coor's light in front of me I asked "what's this?" She smiled, pointed down the bar, and exclaimed "you see that girl? this is on her. "
She was a cute mid twenties blonde, about 5'5, 110lbs, very attractive. I was so caught off guard I think I just sat there staring at her for a few seconds as she waved at me.
I'll never forget it. It's one of those moments a women does something for you so unexpected you just have to let it sink in a bit.
Obviously the night ended as you would expect.
When the bartender set a glass of Coor's light in front of me I asked "what's this?" She smiled, pointed down the bar, and exclaimed "you see that girl? this is on her. "
She was a cute mid twenties blonde, about 5'5, 110lbs, very attractive. I was so caught off guard I think I just sat there staring at her for a few seconds as she waved at me.
I'll never forget it. It's one of those moments a women does something for you so unexpected you just have to let it sink in a bit.
Obviously the night ended as you would expect.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
know a guy who had it happen to him, A woman 15 years older did it to him. He was young, didn't know his worth, and married her....
He's 6'3" 200, making about 100k and farms on the side. Maybe making 200k and his sister is a solid 9 with a degree in Physical Therapy. So, I'd guess he'd rate high on a scale....settled for an attractive cougar with a kid :-(
He's 6'3" 200, making about 100k and farms on the side. Maybe making 200k and his sister is a solid 9 with a degree in Physical Therapy. So, I'd guess he'd rate high on a scale....settled for an attractive cougar with a kid :-(