Killakittie
Senior Don Juan
Had a bartender bring you a drink and tell you it's from that cute girl sitting a ways down from you?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
daddymonsterpoodle
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Nope. How do they know it is you?
Killakittie
Senior Don Juan
I had to change the question but let's just say they showed me.
PantyWhisperer
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Never happened to me. Would be great if it did. It would certainly set you up with a strong amount of initial confidence.
Killakittie
Senior Don Juan
Only happened once to me...
When the bartender set a glass of Coor's light in front of me I asked "what's this?" She smiled, pointed down the bar, and exclaimed "you see that girl? this is on her. "
She was a cute mid twenties blonde, about 5'5, 110lbs, very attractive. I was so caught off guard I think I just sat there staring at her for a few seconds as she waved at me.
I'll never forget it. It's one of those moments a women does something for you so unexpected you just have to let it sink in a bit.
Obviously the night ended as you would expect.
When the bartender set a glass of Coor's light in front of me I asked "what's this?" She smiled, pointed down the bar, and exclaimed "you see that girl? this is on her. "
She was a cute mid twenties blonde, about 5'5, 110lbs, very attractive. I was so caught off guard I think I just sat there staring at her for a few seconds as she waved at me.
I'll never forget it. It's one of those moments a women does something for you so unexpected you just have to let it sink in a bit.
Obviously the night ended as you would expect.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
know a guy who had it happen to him, A woman 15 years older did it to him. He was young, didn't know his worth, and married her....
He's 6'3" 200, making about 100k and farms on the side. Maybe making 200k and his sister is a solid 9 with a degree in Physical Therapy. So, I'd guess he'd rate high on a scale....settled for an attractive cougar with a kid :-(
He's 6'3" 200, making about 100k and farms on the side. Maybe making 200k and his sister is a solid 9 with a degree in Physical Therapy. So, I'd guess he'd rate high on a scale....settled for an attractive cougar with a kid :-(