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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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Anyone else read the board before a night out?

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danziger

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I was wondering if anyone else takes a quick half hour or so to read the board before heading for a night out?

I find it gets me in the right frame of mind and sometimes I get some new ideas to try out that night.

Anyone do anything similar? I'd be interested to hear it!

Dan

edit: fat-fingered the keys... :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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madgame

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I dont really read the board, but Im gonna try and start rehearsing some approaches or so in my mind and stuff to get the right mindset for the night. I usually have to hurry and drink and go out and when Im at the club Im not really motivated to do some approaches, so I figured this is like every other goal u wanna accomplish in life. Youll have an easier time doing it if you're motivated and have a certain goal. I know this might sound a little overdone, but before a boxer or any other fighter goes to the ring they usually rehearse their combos and everything in their mind. Same thing for a lot of other sports.
Im gonna start doing this next time I go out ;-)
 
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I used to. But then I realized being a DJ involves just finding yourself and who you are. Remembering techniques is bull because that ISNT who you are.

I realized im a WEIRD goofy kid (with good looks of course ;-) ) and that by being myself, girls seem to like me more. So dont waste your time, have fun while your young.
 
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yeah i know exactly what you mean danziger. i dont do it before i go out but whenever im in a bad mood/need a reminder/need a refreshment i come here. it really does keep me on track. i used to come to this board all the time, and read a lot + pooks threads + got really ****y and told myself "**** this i dont need this at all im leaving." over time i realized my skills were getting worse and worse (by over time i mean half a year). i usually dont ever learn anything new here but something about just reading ideas over and over and over again helps me get the right mindframe.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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