“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Anyone else read the board before a night out?

danziger

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I was wondering if anyone else takes a quick half hour or so to read the board before heading for a night out?

I find it gets me in the right frame of mind and sometimes I get some new ideas to try out that night.

Anyone do anything similar? I'd be interested to hear it!

Dan

edit: fat-fingered the keys... :)
 

madgame

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I dont really read the board, but Im gonna try and start rehearsing some approaches or so in my mind and stuff to get the right mindset for the night. I usually have to hurry and drink and go out and when Im at the club Im not really motivated to do some approaches, so I figured this is like every other goal u wanna accomplish in life. Youll have an easier time doing it if you're motivated and have a certain goal. I know this might sound a little overdone, but before a boxer or any other fighter goes to the ring they usually rehearse their combos and everything in their mind. Same thing for a lot of other sports.
Im gonna start doing this next time I go out ;-)
 

nan3109

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I used to. But then I realized being a DJ involves just finding yourself and who you are. Remembering techniques is bull because that ISNT who you are.

I realized im a WEIRD goofy kid (with good looks of course ;-) ) and that by being myself, girls seem to like me more. So dont waste your time, have fun while your young.
 

J-Man

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yeah i know exactly what you mean danziger. i dont do it before i go out but whenever im in a bad mood/need a reminder/need a refreshment i come here. it really does keep me on track. i used to come to this board all the time, and read a lot + pooks threads + got really ****y and told myself "**** this i dont need this at all im leaving." over time i realized my skills were getting worse and worse (by over time i mean half a year). i usually dont ever learn anything new here but something about just reading ideas over and over and over again helps me get the right mindframe.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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