"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Anyone else picky?

Mulder138

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Let me just start off by saying that I'm 24, a virgin, have fooled around with a couple girls that to me were a 5 or 6 and found it pointless. My first kiss (Age 17, hours after my last day of high school. Met a girl from the internet that lived in a town over from me) was probably the most anticlimactic moment of my life. I remember thinking "this would be better if I was physically attracted." Like someone said in another post, I'd rather jerk off than do anything sexually with a girl I'm not attracted to.

I don't think I'm that picky. I'm consistent. White women only. Chubby or fat is an obvious turnoff, same thing with the tall, thin, no curves type like Paris Hilton or Maria Sharapova. If a girl is curvy and has a pretty face, she's probably my type. Blonde, brunette, redhead, doesn't matter. For celebrities, I like Gillian Anderson when she was younger on X-Files and Patricia Heaton when she was on Everybody Loves Raymond. They don't look anything alike, but they're both short and have shoulder length hair and a pretty face and a nice body.

As far as myself, I look like the guy that plays Tony Almeida in the show 24. I've had girls think I was cute or hot and also girls that thought I was ugly or nerdy. I never know, and that's part of the reason I like this stuff. I've never had anything handed to me.

My problem, besides the standards, is that I live in a town near other small towns. It would be hard enough to even meet a 0-7 girl close to my age. I end up seeing girls that I'm attracted to in nearly impossible situations. For instance, there was a HB10 receptionist at a hair-cutting place. My brother and I joked around that she probably has some loser bf. Next thing you know, some wigger comes in and they leave together. Neither of them looked particularly happy with the other. They just looked like a bored couple.

Moving isn't an option at the moment. Bars and clubs, besides the fact that I don't drink, hate places where I can't even hear myself talking to people, and don't want drunk, party girls, are at best an hour/hour and a half away from me. I don't expect to meet a girl in the town I live in, but they have to be at least a half-hour radius to make a potential friends with benefits or relationship work.

The good news is that when I finally meet a HB, I'll be in her social circle and meet other HBs, kind of like the episode of Seinfeld where George has a picture of a model and tells women that he used to date her before she died and all of a sudden he's meeting HBs left and right.

I'm wondering if anyone has been in this situation or is also currently in this situation and what can be done about it, settling for less not being an option.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hey, if it's working out for you so far, don't worry about it. The last thing any man needs to do is get into a relationship with some chick he ends up resenting and not having a viable exit strategy. There's nothing wrong with waiting to find "the one." Although, you do have to actively look for her, and know what to do when you find her.
 

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I used to think there was "the one" but there a lot of "the ones." Even for a guy like myself, who lives in a town and sees mostly UGs and average looking girls, I've seen enough girls that would rate a 10 on my looks scale. My goal is to have sex with such a girl.
 

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I have read that guys decribed as "naturals" are usually not that picky. A hb 7-8 with the right attitude is enough to make me happy.
 

MooseGod

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^ The man speaks the truth. Watch "Talladega Nights" for elaboration on this concept and a few good laughs. Notice the difference between the extremely hot b!tch that Will Ferrel is married to in the beginning and then the cute redhead (i think she's a redhead, it's been a while since I've seen it) he ends up with in the end of the movie. Which one do you want?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I'm a quality over quantity guy. I'm the kind of person that will listen to the same few songs over and over again rather than listen to a bunch of songs that I think are just ok. Same thing with girls. I'd rather have sex with the same one or two girls that are 10s than 10 girls that are a 7 or 8. For me, it isn't a competition. I'm not looking for bragging rights or to be a pick-up artist or anything. I'm doing it for myself and my own pleasure.
 
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