"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Anyone else on facebook?

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Vincent

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Anyone in college seems to be on facebook these days.

Its slow as hell now :(

I'm on it, but your gonna have to guess who I am or something.
 

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Originally posted by Helter Skelter
What's facebook?
Facebook is a thing for college students. You post your picture and your profile and people can find you by college or by high school or whatever. It's really neat, I've found high school friends I'd forgotten about and random people who ask you to be their friend because they like your picture. Would it be too weird to post who you are? I almost feel like it would be although I think it would be kind of neat.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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m4a1

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What's the website for... "the facebook"?
 

Giovanni Casanova

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Since never.

The book did not want my face.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Oxide

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So what the fuk, since when are all of us so shy?


I want to add all of you guys in this thread.

Search for Group "I party at Sandman House" , i am "The boom Boom man" - Dennis. Add me and message me so i know who you are.

Diablo, i am going to LSU sometime, add me.
 

worstepisode

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Yeah, I'm on there but I can't find your group. I live in Canada but let's add each other anyways. I'll PM you my name.
 

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Too bad you can't search the site unless you have a college e-mail.
 
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