"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Anyone else on facebook?

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Vincent

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Anyone in college seems to be on facebook these days.

Its slow as hell now :(

I'm on it, but your gonna have to guess who I am or something.
 

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Originally posted by Helter Skelter
What's facebook?
Facebook is a thing for college students. You post your picture and your profile and people can find you by college or by high school or whatever. It's really neat, I've found high school friends I'd forgotten about and random people who ask you to be their friend because they like your picture. Would it be too weird to post who you are? I almost feel like it would be although I think it would be kind of neat.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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m4a1

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What's the website for... "the facebook"?
 

Giovanni Casanova

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Since never.

The book did not want my face.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Oxide

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So what the fuk, since when are all of us so shy?


I want to add all of you guys in this thread.

Search for Group "I party at Sandman House" , i am "The boom Boom man" - Dennis. Add me and message me so i know who you are.

Diablo, i am going to LSU sometime, add me.
 

worstepisode

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Yeah, I'm on there but I can't find your group. I live in Canada but let's add each other anyways. I'll PM you my name.
 

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Too bad you can't search the site unless you have a college e-mail.
 
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