"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Anyone else notice tinder girls new neg about height?

dk1990S111

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Seems like I keep seeing in girls bios that they "dont care about height"

Examples that I have seen in the last few days:

I dont care how tall you are.

I dont care how tall you are as long as you can make me laugh.

i could care less how tall you are.

Your height doesnt impress me.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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dk1990S111 said:
Seems like I keep seeing in girls bios that they "dont care about height"

Examples that I have seen in the last few days:

I dont care how tall you are.

I dont care how tall you are as long as you can make me laugh.

i could care less how tall you are.

Your height doesnt impress me.
Just some random "tinder" girls trying to cause a stirrup over nothing... :crazy:
 

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I know this is a little off topic but I just came across this article about the types of girls you would meet off tinder. It's at least a good read (if this same article hasn't been brought up before)

http://puamore.com/blog/tinder-girls/


I'm telling you man...WOMEN HAVE TOO MUCH TIME ON THEIR HANDS FOR NONSENSE... I currently have girls from the city who work in payroll departments sending me requests to play "candy crush" on a Tuesday morning after the holiday weekend... I just hope everyone gets paid on time.
 

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Women like to feel dainty and feminine. They feel more feminine with a man that towers over them. Do they need it? No, but they like it. Taller men are just more fun for them, that's all.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Just saw this one chick right now that was not even hot at all imo (accidently brought up her full profile) and in her bio she literally put "I deserve to be spoiled. If you can't fulfill that swipe left. Don't tell me when you are horny. I will laugh at you."

Delusional lol either that or guys are really desperate and actually giving this b1tch attention.
 

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The most ridiculous one I've seen on Tinder said right out on the profile...

"Under 6'8"? Don't even bother swiping right!

Everyone has their preferences & yes it sorta sucks for us shorter guys but it doesn't really bother me until they start tryin to bust on me about my height, but I'll come back & bust on their weight if I can in that case lol.
 

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The height thing has always been a "thing" on Tinder. A least since I was on in the last year. You just ran into a string of them.

Also, now that you have to pay, girls are getting far less matches and might be starting to "behave" a little better to fill their ego tanks.
 

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Mike32ct said:
If she makes comments like that, it shows that she's thinking about height.

If she really didn't care, she wouldn't bring it up.
This.

But if women neg about height, then there shouldn't be a reason why men shouldn't neg about weight. Get even with them.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Never listen to what a chick says she wants - she will change her mind if you get her hot enough. I'm under 6' and dated girls who would "only date tall guys".
 

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Dating is so fûcked up right now, it's ridiculous. 9 million ways of connecting people through technology, yet everyone seems to be getting more and more delusional and estranged.
 

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I don't like girls who are too short. I think 5'2" is perhaps my bare minimum. I'm 5'10". Can't understand why girls want super-tall guys. It's stupid. It makes it harder to kiss them, harder to dance with them, harder to hold hands with them, etc. If you get a picture taken with them, it looks imbalanced.

I read on the internet that the ideal height ratio is about 90%, which means that 5'4" is supposedly what I should aim for.
 

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Uncharted said:
Never listen to what a chick says she wants - she will change her mind if you get her hot enough. I'm under 6' and dated girls who would "only date tall guys".
I've pulled those types in person where I can work game on them & use kino to get them going. Usually from behind a screen if they see a height figure they don't like there's no changing their mind unless you have a real ace up your sleeve you can play.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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