"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Anyone else notice tinder girls new neg about height?

dk1990S111

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Seems like I keep seeing in girls bios that they "dont care about height"

Examples that I have seen in the last few days:

I dont care how tall you are.

I dont care how tall you are as long as you can make me laugh.

i could care less how tall you are.

Your height doesnt impress me.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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dk1990S111 said:
Seems like I keep seeing in girls bios that they "dont care about height"

Examples that I have seen in the last few days:

I dont care how tall you are.

I dont care how tall you are as long as you can make me laugh.

i could care less how tall you are.

Your height doesnt impress me.
Just some random "tinder" girls trying to cause a stirrup over nothing... :crazy:
 

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I know this is a little off topic but I just came across this article about the types of girls you would meet off tinder. It's at least a good read (if this same article hasn't been brought up before)

http://puamore.com/blog/tinder-girls/


I'm telling you man...WOMEN HAVE TOO MUCH TIME ON THEIR HANDS FOR NONSENSE... I currently have girls from the city who work in payroll departments sending me requests to play "candy crush" on a Tuesday morning after the holiday weekend... I just hope everyone gets paid on time.
 

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Women like to feel dainty and feminine. They feel more feminine with a man that towers over them. Do they need it? No, but they like it. Taller men are just more fun for them, that's all.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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dk1990S111

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Just saw this one chick right now that was not even hot at all imo (accidently brought up her full profile) and in her bio she literally put "I deserve to be spoiled. If you can't fulfill that swipe left. Don't tell me when you are horny. I will laugh at you."

Delusional lol either that or guys are really desperate and actually giving this b1tch attention.
 

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The most ridiculous one I've seen on Tinder said right out on the profile...

"Under 6'8"? Don't even bother swiping right!

Everyone has their preferences & yes it sorta sucks for us shorter guys but it doesn't really bother me until they start tryin to bust on me about my height, but I'll come back & bust on their weight if I can in that case lol.
 

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The height thing has always been a "thing" on Tinder. A least since I was on in the last year. You just ran into a string of them.

Also, now that you have to pay, girls are getting far less matches and might be starting to "behave" a little better to fill their ego tanks.
 

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Mike32ct said:
If she makes comments like that, it shows that she's thinking about height.

If she really didn't care, she wouldn't bring it up.
This.

But if women neg about height, then there shouldn't be a reason why men shouldn't neg about weight. Get even with them.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Never listen to what a chick says she wants - she will change her mind if you get her hot enough. I'm under 6' and dated girls who would "only date tall guys".
 

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Dating is so fûcked up right now, it's ridiculous. 9 million ways of connecting people through technology, yet everyone seems to be getting more and more delusional and estranged.
 

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I don't like girls who are too short. I think 5'2" is perhaps my bare minimum. I'm 5'10". Can't understand why girls want super-tall guys. It's stupid. It makes it harder to kiss them, harder to dance with them, harder to hold hands with them, etc. If you get a picture taken with them, it looks imbalanced.

I read on the internet that the ideal height ratio is about 90%, which means that 5'4" is supposedly what I should aim for.
 

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Uncharted said:
Never listen to what a chick says she wants - she will change her mind if you get her hot enough. I'm under 6' and dated girls who would "only date tall guys".
I've pulled those types in person where I can work game on them & use kino to get them going. Usually from behind a screen if they see a height figure they don't like there's no changing their mind unless you have a real ace up your sleeve you can play.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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