"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Anyone else notice this?

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captain55

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Why is it the hottest chicks always seem to come
Into your life when your already in a relationship?

About a year ago I went out with my greatest conquest of all time two weeks into my now gf of one year. I didn't end up banging her because I was exclusive (but still early in the relationship so I took her to a casual dinner)
I regret not giving her a chance now because my relationship Went to ****.

I lost her number becusse I didnt want my now gf seeing it, but found her on my Snapchat last night and just found her social media , so what would you fellas reccomend here? Should I add her on social media and let her see my current hot gf for status and hit her up when **** hits the fan? Send her a Snapchat explaining why I dissapeared?

I don't want her to know the reason I dissapeared was because I was seeing another chick at the time so idk what to do here
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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BetterCallSaul

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Why make this complicated. Say "hey", and let her make the next move, if any.
 
marmel75

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Two reasons:

1) Psychologically people always want something more when it's unattainable than when it's readily available. It's viewed as having more value.

2) Its a form of social proof because they view it as "she thinks he is a good catch, he must have something worthwhile" and then they end up wanting to find out what it is that you have that makes her stay with you.
 
wifehunter

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Stay single = problem solved

Don't let them lock you down.

So, if a high quality chick comes along... you won't have any baggage!:p
 
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