"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Anyone else notice this?

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captain55

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Why is it the hottest chicks always seem to come
Into your life when your already in a relationship?

About a year ago I went out with my greatest conquest of all time two weeks into my now gf of one year. I didn't end up banging her because I was exclusive (but still early in the relationship so I took her to a casual dinner)
I regret not giving her a chance now because my relationship Went to ****.

I lost her number becusse I didnt want my now gf seeing it, but found her on my Snapchat last night and just found her social media , so what would you fellas reccomend here? Should I add her on social media and let her see my current hot gf for status and hit her up when **** hits the fan? Send her a Snapchat explaining why I dissapeared?

I don't want her to know the reason I dissapeared was because I was seeing another chick at the time so idk what to do here
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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BetterCallSaul

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Why make this complicated. Say "hey", and let her make the next move, if any.
 
marmel75

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Two reasons:

1) Psychologically people always want something more when it's unattainable than when it's readily available. It's viewed as having more value.

2) Its a form of social proof because they view it as "she thinks he is a good catch, he must have something worthwhile" and then they end up wanting to find out what it is that you have that makes her stay with you.
 
wifehunter

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Stay single = problem solved

Don't let them lock you down.

So, if a high quality chick comes along... you won't have any baggage!:p
 
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