Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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anyone else notice this?

thedude4242

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anyone have a girl check them out all the time when they are out and when you happen to look up or in their direction you just glance their way and they are looking at you? all the time you see it and so do your friends?

there was a certain girl who always does this. I knew some of her friends and talked to them. then I said something to bust her balls and she said I dont want you to touch me. I said thats fine. then I talked to her and her friends and they where laughing and having a good time. I said something to that same girl again and she said, "you think your funny?" and I said yes I do all your friends are laughing. continued on for a while. was she mad because she was the hottest of the group and I didnt pay any attention to here. theis girl still stares and at me and I see it all the time. one time my friends introduced to her and she said she dont know me when we met before. I still see her looking at me and just happen to accidently glance her way and she is always looking. I think she is trying to get me to talk to her so then she has the chance to diss me. she has fake boobs.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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thedude4242 said:
anyone have a girl check them out all the time when they are out and when you happen to look up or in their direction you just glance their way and they are looking at you? all the time you see it and so do your friends?

there was a certain girl who always does this. I knew some of her friends and talked to them. then I said something to bust her balls and she said I dont want you to touch me. I said thats fine. then I talked to her and her friends and they where laughing and having a good time. I said something to that same girl again and she said, "you think your funny?" and I said yes I do all your friends are laughing. continued on for a while. was she mad because she was the hottest of the group and I didnt pay any attention to here. theis girl still stares and at me and I see it all the time. one time my friends introduced to her and she said she dont know me when we met before. I still see her looking at me and just happen to accidently glance her way and she is always looking. I think she is trying to get me to talk to her so then she has the chance to diss me. she has fake boobs.
Maybe she's plotting to kill you
 

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Undispu7ed said:
Maybe she's plotting to kill you
Yer, she might be planning to sell your body parts to cannibals on the black market. Be wary.
 

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if you cant have their love, their hate is better than apathy. its still an emotion.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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thedude4242 said:
I think she is trying to get me to talk to her so then she has the chance to diss me. she has fake boobs.
:crackup:

That last part about her having fake breasts was completely unexpected! Great job man.

Don't you think it's interesting that out of all the girls in the group, you're focused on the only one who wasn't reciprocating your advances? She may be testing you or she may not. Either way, the point is to continue doing what you're doing and if she still comes off as a big ol' meanie, then leave her out of your thought process and pursue one of her other friends. I like big boobs.

:up:
 

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boy I thought you guys knew your stuff, I am asking an honest question.
 

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thedude4242 said:
boy I thought you guys knew your stuff, I am asking an honest question.
Your post didn't make the most sense ever, and Rez did give you a response.
 

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here what I mean. sometimes when do dont give a woman any attention or be the kiss ass guy that a lot them are and buy them drinks and be an afc with them because they are hot girls, I think sometimes they then wait for you to ask and love to give you a no. almost like a theyre thinking he doesnt check me out or treat me like I am hot so I cant wait to get the change to turn him down. how do u tell the difference between a sh!t test and she is just not interested.
 

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Well it's pretty easy. If you talk to her and she flat out tells you she's not interested, she's not interested. A sh*t test is completely different.

Also, maybe she was checking you out and thinking you were hawt, then your approach sucked.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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thedude4242 said:
anyone have a girl check them out all the time when they are out and when you happen to look up or in their direction you just glance their way and they are looking at you? all the time you see it and so do your friends?

That's how my beautiful redheaded girlfriend found me. Every time we crossed paths, she would lock eyes with me. I'd be minding my own business, and suddenly catch her staring at me from across the room or something.

I approached her, applied what I learned here, and now she's mine.
 

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thedude4242 said:
beatoven tell me more about this approach.
Normally she was with her friends, and experience has taught me you do NOT make a move on a girl with her friends around.

So I waited until I ran into her (alone) between classes, smiled at her, walked up and said "hey, what's up?"

She started talking about her day, I applied C&F, busted her balls, and was like, "hey, it was cool talking to you. We should hang out, let me get your number." This was in the space of like 5 minutes. I texted her later on, and we met up for bowling where I ramped things up a bit. From then on one thing led to another and now we're in a relationship. :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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seriously though I have no problem at all in attracting woman. it is in between this step an getting it on step I have problem with. for instance,

1. attract girl, getting her interested in talking. get phone number
2. having success on setting up a date for the two of you to do something legit. knowing she is going to hang out and wants too.
3. making the moves. satisfy her sexually and show her a good time

I have a hard time with step 2.
 

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get her email. email her: "Hey Jane Doe, this is Thedude, I am going to be out with a few friends tomorrow night at jims bar, why not stop in & join us"? "It's about time we go for round two, huh?" "I can hear the announcer now: Ladies & gentleman, lets get ready to rummmmbleee"
 

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I am comfortable in any social situation. I know for a fact I dont have any inferriority complex. I dont care what people think. maybe people think I am talking down on them. I have talk to girls and I have heard them tell other people I dont think he likes me. maybe that has something to do with it, but I am always comfortable in any social situation. I do what I want and say what I want. people might think I am shy, ect. I am comofortable in any social situation and socialize better than just about anyone. my last lady friend told me that the only I need to do is just slow things down.
 

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thedude4242 said:
seriously though I have no problem at all in attracting woman. it is in between this step an getting it on step I have problem with. for instance,

1. attract girl, getting her interested in talking. get phone number
2. having success on setting up a date for the two of you to do something legit. knowing she is going to hang out and wants too.
3. making the moves. satisfy her sexually and show her a good time

I have a hard time with step 2.
Do you actually try to set up dates? If you do, then it could be that they just think of you as being a friend, and don't want to take it further. In which case, you'll have to take a look at your game. Also, she might not be comfortable around you enough at the point which you ask.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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