"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Anyone else not gonna go out tomorrow night, simply because it's Halloween?

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I'm not. I can't stand the freakshows that walk around, and the girls that would normally be attractive look hideous.

Then again, Halloween give girls a reason to dress like sluts, but I don't think it's worth going out.

Yeah, I sound like a prude right now, and you'd be right to think that :rolleyes:

I try not to take things too seriously, but Halloween is so useless, I'm glad all the foolishness will be over soon.

To those who are going out, enjoy yourselves, and post up the stories :D
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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And get bombarded by kids? I live in a closed residential area. There are going to be 50 to 100 kids tops knocking on the door all ngiht long. **** that, I'm going out!
 

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Well I'm on a college campus, so there will be none of that. Just dumbass kids making noise outside the dorms.
 
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Nygard said:
And get bombarded by kids? I live in a closed residential area. There are going to be 50 to 100 kids tops knocking on the door all ngiht long. **** that, I'm going out!
This guy's got the right idea. The little bastards never stop with the damn doorbell. I'll be at a bar with some friends in the hopes of hooking up with a hot chick in a totally sexy costume. Beats sitting around at home.
 

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I would if I had a costume but I hate buying something I only use once =/

And I dont' want to feel lame being a guy at a party w/o a costume.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Just a Shot Away

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kingy said:
uuuuuuhhhh ?? are u kidding...... the girls look amazing. seriously
Agreed. I have yet to see a hot chick look ugly in her Halloween costume. Most of the hot chicks I see on Halloween use the holiday as an excuse to dress EXTRA slutty to show even more skin than usual. How can you go wrong with that?

On the other hand, most average/ugly chicks become hot/decent in their costumes. It's hard not to look good in a sexy cop outfit or Japanese schoolgirl uniform unless the chick is just flat-out obese and her rolls are spilling over her waistband.
 

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Heh, related to the sexiness or lack of thereof, I went to an early Halloween party yesterday, and it looked like a witch convention with all the pointy hats. At one point I was talking with one random HB.

Her: "Yeah, and tomorrow I'm going to a friend's real Halloween aprty."
Me: "Getting two uses out of the same costume?"
Her: "Oh no, I'm ressing up as... well, kinda... like a wh***!"

She laughs. I take a step back and make a show of looking at her up and down.

Me: "And other than the pointy hat, the difference would be...?"

Good times. Yes, many scantily clad femmes wearing pointy hats.
 

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And get bombarded by kids? I live in a closed residential area. There are going to be 50 to 100 kids tops knocking on the door all ngiht long. **** that, I'm going out!
I stayed in on Halloween last year and the doorbell never stopped ringin,
what's worse is that it's very loud and the sound of it is annoying.
I aint tryin to sit at home hearin that sh*t and since it's saturday kids are gonna want to start trick or treatin early.

I'm makin some calls to see what everybodies doin.
 
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Just a Shot Away said:
Agreed. I have yet to see a hot chick look ugly in her Halloween costume. Most of the hot chicks I see on Halloween use the holiday as an excuse to dress EXTRA slutty to show even more skin than usual. How can you go wrong with that?

On the other hand, most average/ugly chicks become hot/decent in their costumes. It's hard not to look good in a sexy cop outfit or Japanese schoolgirl uniform unless the chick is just flat-out obese and her rolls are spilling over her waistband.
You are on fire lately, Just a Shot Away! I can't agree more. No other day in the year gets the "slut" treatment more than Halloween. You can't beat the combination of girls dressing slutty and drinking hard. - Except the fat ones, even if they have a nice body under all that fat.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Piano Master said:
You are on fire lately, Just a Shot Away! I can't agree more. No other...
Why did you copy my profile picture and paste it in yours?
 

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The Piano Master said:
You are on fire lately, Just a Shot Away! I can't agree more. No other day in the year gets the "slut" treatment more than Halloween. You can't beat the combination of girls dressing slutty and drinking hard. - Except the fat ones, even if they have a nice body under all that fat.

Lol the fat ones are just right IMO! Especially with those "slutty" fishnets and what not... Funny thing is, there's not that many of them in my area, let alone for halloween parties, I live in skinny chick central, and I don't find anorexic chicks to be worth macking/seducing to begin with.
 

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Went to the wedding then hit up the local club. It was packed, no room to dance. Had a good time even tho i was in a tux, people thought it was my costume, but really i just attended a weeding haha =]
 

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SickAgain said:
I would if I had a costume but I hate buying something I only use once =/

And I dont' want to feel lame being a guy at a party w/o a costume.
I went to a wedding yesterday (yeah, I know, a wedding on halloween? dumb) and dressed up nice for that but then didn't feel like going home and changing so I just went out dressed up and EVERYONE asked, "So what are you?" Of course I replied, "Guess" or "You tell me"
Worked like a charm.
 

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Holy crap, another guy pretty much posted the same thing.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Just a Shot Away said:
Why did you copy my profile picture and paste it in yours?
Wow. I see martin shernwood/shop until I die/el febreezy da beez is still trolling sosuave. If you could just remove my picture before you get banned, I'd really appreciate it.
 
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