“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Anyone Else Have a Cookie-Cutter First Date?

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Just curious. Do any other guys out there have a cookie-cutter first date they take all women on?

There's a coffee shop I tell them to meet me at. Nearby there's a gourmet chocolate shop, which I take them to, buy a few chocolates for a few bucks, and feed them to her and I. There's also a gourmet ice cream shop nearby, they give free samples and that's another way she and I can eat the same foods. There's a school playground up the street to go have some nostalgic fun at. There's also some specialty shops in walking distance too.

By then she should be comfortable enough to jump in my truck with me and head to the mall. I enjoy fashion and looking good, so I take her to some designer stores, have her try on a sexy dress, then tell her come over and kiss me. Always works. Then I let her dress me up a bit as long as it isn't too crazy.

Then we head out to this nearby pub that has some relatively cheap food and drinks, but has very unique and fun food that you can share and feed each other. That's when I really turn on the charm and she starts to let her guard down and I can really find out what kind of person she is. After that it's usually make out time.

Anyway, just curious if anyone else has a first date they take every woman on? It seems to work well for me, and I take her to several of my favorite places in the city, so if she likes those that's a good sign we have a lot in common. And having done it so many times it makes it easy to be fun and confident. I also never have to worry about where I'm going to have a woman I just met meet me for a first date, since it's always the same place.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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