"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Anyone Else Have a Cookie-Cutter First Date?

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Just curious. Do any other guys out there have a cookie-cutter first date they take all women on?

There's a coffee shop I tell them to meet me at. Nearby there's a gourmet chocolate shop, which I take them to, buy a few chocolates for a few bucks, and feed them to her and I. There's also a gourmet ice cream shop nearby, they give free samples and that's another way she and I can eat the same foods. There's a school playground up the street to go have some nostalgic fun at. There's also some specialty shops in walking distance too.

By then she should be comfortable enough to jump in my truck with me and head to the mall. I enjoy fashion and looking good, so I take her to some designer stores, have her try on a sexy dress, then tell her come over and kiss me. Always works. Then I let her dress me up a bit as long as it isn't too crazy.

Then we head out to this nearby pub that has some relatively cheap food and drinks, but has very unique and fun food that you can share and feed each other. That's when I really turn on the charm and she starts to let her guard down and I can really find out what kind of person she is. After that it's usually make out time.

Anyway, just curious if anyone else has a first date they take every woman on? It seems to work well for me, and I take her to several of my favorite places in the city, so if she likes those that's a good sign we have a lot in common. And having done it so many times it makes it easy to be fun and confident. I also never have to worry about where I'm going to have a woman I just met meet me for a first date, since it's always the same place.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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