"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Anyone else getting PM'ed links to gay pictures?

Thai Foon

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I got this from Eddie Willers... lol. "My Pic" was a link to gay porn

Subject: hey

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You seem like a well rounded guy, and I don't want to post my picture on the forum. But could you tell me if I'm attractive guy?

My pic
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Jack McCrack

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sounds like someone is messing with you
 

TheVirtualMind

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If anyone gets these, delete them.

Eddie Willers is a troll.

If anyone else gets PM's like these from someone other than Eddie Willers, let a moderator know.
 

dap

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i got one and i had to look at straight porn for 5 hours just to erase it from my mind
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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djSlvt

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pms or PMs? Because the subject of this thread make you think forum admin is getting gay pms and needs advice, or something.
 

Canadien

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I got one

from Eddie Willers, I hope this predators get banned for good.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Omen

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Same here :trouble: I already PM'ed a Mod about the guy.

I also told him to get a life. :kick:

People like this who have nothing better to do then send gay p*rn to people, need an A@@ whopping.
 

SharinganUser

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djSlvt said:
pms or PMs? Because the subject of this thread make you think forum admin is getting gay pms and needs advice, or something.

That was my thoughts exactly. I didn't think gays could get pms.
 

TheVirtualMind

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On our way to dealing with him.

Let any mod know if you get anymore pics sent from another name too.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ElStud

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He's back as Winston Smith. He PMed me, luckily I knew to delete the PM before looking at the picture.
 

Fenderules

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yeah, i got it but knew enought not to open it.

No gay porn for me.

Im actually proud to say that i'v never seen any gay porn besides that stupid "goatse" crap that went around.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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