"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Anyone else getting PM'ed links to gay pictures?

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Thai Foon

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I got this from Eddie Willers... lol. "My Pic" was a link to gay porn

Subject: hey

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You seem like a well rounded guy, and I don't want to post my picture on the forum. But could you tell me if I'm attractive guy?

My pic
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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sounds like someone is messing with you
 
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If anyone gets these, delete them.

Eddie Willers is a troll.

If anyone else gets PM's like these from someone other than Eddie Willers, let a moderator know.
 
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i got one and i had to look at straight porn for 5 hours just to erase it from my mind
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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pms or PMs? Because the subject of this thread make you think forum admin is getting gay pms and needs advice, or something.
 
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I got one

from Eddie Willers, I hope this predators get banned for good.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Same here :trouble: I already PM'ed a Mod about the guy.

I also told him to get a life. :kick:

People like this who have nothing better to do then send gay p*rn to people, need an A@@ whopping.
 
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djSlvt said:
pms or PMs? Because the subject of this thread make you think forum admin is getting gay pms and needs advice, or something.
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That was my thoughts exactly. I didn't think gays could get pms.
 
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On our way to dealing with him.

Let any mod know if you get anymore pics sent from another name too.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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He's back as Winston Smith. He PMed me, luckily I knew to delete the PM before looking at the picture.
 
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yeah, i got it but knew enought not to open it.

No gay porn for me.

Im actually proud to say that i'v never seen any gay porn besides that stupid "goatse" crap that went around.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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