"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Anyone else get depressed in the month of december?

SamTheHobit

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Everyone going away with there family's, friends, girlfriends etc. And your just stuck in your room isolated.

Any one else here Feel the same way?

It's a terrible feeling.

So to all the guys with no family or friends what do you do, I know this will be the minority here but I'm not to sure what to do, thinking of drinking my way through it.

What's your plan?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I prefer isolation to holiday dinners and parties personally..

The cold weather/ not as much to go out and do is pretty limiting and shîtty, probably not a problem where you are though.
 

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Yes, It's a dark age for me aside from May
 

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It's mainly Vitamin D deficiency from lack of sun, and is especially hard if you have dark skin and/or were born in the summer months. Use this time to diet and find natural sources, and then next spring you will bounce back in a big way. But wait - isn't it Summer in the Southern Hemisphere?
 
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