"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Anyone else get depressed in the month of december?

SamTheHobit

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Everyone going away with there family's, friends, girlfriends etc. And your just stuck in your room isolated.

Any one else here Feel the same way?

It's a terrible feeling.

So to all the guys with no family or friends what do you do, I know this will be the minority here but I'm not to sure what to do, thinking of drinking my way through it.

What's your plan?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I prefer isolation to holiday dinners and parties personally..

The cold weather/ not as much to go out and do is pretty limiting and shîtty, probably not a problem where you are though.
 

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Yes, It's a dark age for me aside from May
 

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It's mainly Vitamin D deficiency from lack of sun, and is especially hard if you have dark skin and/or were born in the summer months. Use this time to diet and find natural sources, and then next spring you will bounce back in a big way. But wait - isn't it Summer in the Southern Hemisphere?
 
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