Raoul Duke
Don Juan
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Just out of interest, how many of you guys actually 'got the girl' apart from just screwing them from viewing this site?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Anyone else feel brainwashed?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
SamRi72
Don Juan
Define "got the girl". If you slept with her, you "got the girl" in your bed. Why you complaining?
WC2
Master Don Juan
Most of this site is dedicated to what most men have the hardest time doing; introducing themselves and attracting themselves to women.
Relationships are another realm.
A lot of good men have trouble communicating themselves to women due to insecurity, ignorance, etc. This is why this site is here, to help those out.
Relationships are another realm.
A lot of good men have trouble communicating themselves to women due to insecurity, ignorance, etc. This is why this site is here, to help those out.
SamRi72
Don Juan
WC2 has proved himself much more articulate. Where would you be without Sosuave.com. I'll tell you were I'd be, oneitised over a 5 with big tits and rejected. Four weeks of sarging and I have loads of "prospects" and two women who want me over their boyfriends. I'm hearing a lot more "You're the man!"'s from people and even the seven mightiest men at my school look at me as a threat and not just that light-hearted class clown that no one took seriously. Sure, I don't have a GF yet, but four weeks into it and already, I've gone from zero to soon to be hero.
Flat out, I'm slightly over-weight with glasses. I SHOULD change that, but all I did was got game, got standards, and got playin. Check out my Sarge Reports in the High School forum. Stay tuned for Week 5!
Flat out, I'm slightly over-weight with glasses. I SHOULD change that, but all I did was got game, got standards, and got playin. Check out my Sarge Reports in the High School forum. Stay tuned for Week 5!
insanity
Master Don Juan
i used to wonder why the hell some of my friends who were not great looking and azzholes to their girlfriends get and keep these girls. they were mean, pricky, they didn't listen to their girlfriends, and they did whatever the hell they wanted and at the end of the night their girlfriends would be waiting to spread their legs for them. it didn't make sense. i thought being sweet and nice and listening to them would make them see me as a great guy and drop them but that never happened. then grade 9 hit and i started hanging out with the bad crowd and soon i was getting in trouble but the girls seemed to want to date me. then once i started getting girlfriends i started getting afcish and they dropped me. i couldn't figure out what was wrong with falling in love and being nice.
when the internet started booming i stumbled across this site and it was like a revelation or something. being nice was wrong. being bad was good. having a dream and a passion was key to attracting women. women were just a bonus. after a while, i looked back at what my friends were doing and they were doing right naturally. i am glad i found this site because i met a great woman and i have been able to keep her by the advice passed down from this site.
when the internet started booming i stumbled across this site and it was like a revelation or something. being nice was wrong. being bad was good. having a dream and a passion was key to attracting women. women were just a bonus. after a while, i looked back at what my friends were doing and they were doing right naturally. i am glad i found this site because i met a great woman and i have been able to keep her by the advice passed down from this site.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.