"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Anyone else feel brainwashed?

Raoul Duke

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Just out of interest, how many of you guys actually 'got the girl' apart from just screwing them from viewing this site?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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WC2

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Most of this site is dedicated to what most men have the hardest time doing; introducing themselves and attracting themselves to women.

Relationships are another realm.

A lot of good men have trouble communicating themselves to women due to insecurity, ignorance, etc. This is why this site is here, to help those out.
 

SamRi72

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WC2 has proved himself much more articulate. Where would you be without Sosuave.com. I'll tell you were I'd be, oneitised over a 5 with big tits and rejected. Four weeks of sarging and I have loads of "prospects" and two women who want me over their boyfriends. I'm hearing a lot more "You're the man!"'s from people and even the seven mightiest men at my school look at me as a threat and not just that light-hearted class clown that no one took seriously. Sure, I don't have a GF yet, but four weeks into it and already, I've gone from zero to soon to be hero.

Flat out, I'm slightly over-weight with glasses. I SHOULD change that, but all I did was got game, got standards, and got playin. Check out my Sarge Reports in the High School forum. Stay tuned for Week 5!
 

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i used to wonder why the hell some of my friends who were not great looking and azzholes to their girlfriends get and keep these girls. they were mean, pricky, they didn't listen to their girlfriends, and they did whatever the hell they wanted and at the end of the night their girlfriends would be waiting to spread their legs for them. it didn't make sense. i thought being sweet and nice and listening to them would make them see me as a great guy and drop them but that never happened. then grade 9 hit and i started hanging out with the bad crowd and soon i was getting in trouble but the girls seemed to want to date me. then once i started getting girlfriends i started getting afcish and they dropped me. i couldn't figure out what was wrong with falling in love and being nice.

when the internet started booming i stumbled across this site and it was like a revelation or something. being nice was wrong. being bad was good. having a dream and a passion was key to attracting women. women were just a bonus. after a while, i looked back at what my friends were doing and they were doing right naturally. i am glad i found this site because i met a great woman and i have been able to keep her by the advice passed down from this site.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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