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Anyone else ever taken a break from game?

Georgepithyou

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I'm in the process of focusing on launching the website for me and my friends own buisness which is a SEO marketing agency and at the same time I'm applying for more higher end jobs since my current one just doesn't pay enough.

At the same time i have signed up for a Gym membership, I'm thinking of taking a 6 month break from game and cold approach to focus and improve myself before i get back out there.

Anyone else done this before?
 

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Good man.

I doubt more than 5% of men consistently cold approach for any significant period of time in their lives. It's not a commonplace activity. Social circles allow for more trust and comfort, and online dating at least spares you the embarrassment of public rejection.
 

zekko

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If you're asking if I've ever been too busy for dating, absolutely. Higher priorities and all.
 

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I just switch games to keep my brain in the zone.

 

mrgoodstuff

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I'm in the process of focusing on launching the website for me and my friends own buisness which is a SEO marketing agency and at the same time I'm applying for more higher end jobs since my current one just doesn't pay enough.

At the same time i have signed up for a Gym membership, I'm thinking of taking a 6 month break from game and cold approach to focus and improve myself before i get back out there.

Anyone else done this before?
Yep! Don't talk to anyone. It resents your mindset to what is important to YOU.
 

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I'm in the process of focusing on launching the website for me and my friends own buisness which is a SEO marketing agency and at the same time I'm applying for more higher end jobs since my current one just doesn't pay enough.

At the same time i have signed up for a Gym membership, I'm thinking of taking a 6 month break from game and cold approach to focus and improve myself before i get back out there.

Anyone else done this before?
In the days when I was single , I have took some rest from the game and women in general, I felt my self esteem improved, and start seeing my self more of value. Learned read some books ,improved my health.
I think in today life when playing dating game for most men is like playing on hard mode, you really need some rest to re-charge and re-discover yourself.
 

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In the days when I was single , I have took some rest from the game and women in general, I felt my self esteem improved, and start seeing my self more of value. Learned read some books ,improved my health.
I think in today life when playing dating game for most men is like playing on hard mode, you really need some rest to re-charge and re-discover yourself.
Where you able to reinject yourself back into women after being away for some time WITHOUT losing confidence and energy?
 

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Good man.

I doubt more than 5% of men consistently cold approach for any significant period of time in their lives. It's not a commonplace activity. Social circles allow for more trust and comfort, and online dating at least spares you the embarrassment of public rejection.
Yeah you can burnt out pretty quickly, I knew one guy who did it daily for years and now he hates women. It's not healthy.
 

Georgepithyou

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In the days when I was single , I have took some rest from the game and women in general, I felt my self esteem improved, and start seeing my self more of value. Learned read some books ,improved my health.
I think in today life when playing dating game for most men is like playing on hard mode, you really need some rest to re-charge and re-discover yourself.
Yes that's exactly how i feel like i need to recharge and rediscover myself before getting back out there
 

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Where you able to reinject yourself back into women after being away for some time WITHOUT losing confidence and energy?
Yes, actually that period changed my personality, while I lost some of my social confidant due to less going out , but I gained a more feeling of self worth. Also I start recovering my old hobbies that were making me happy.
Started improving my self like running everyday, eating healthy , etc .
Was I happy ? no, as I know I am missing having the family , but this time I was swallowing it like a man, I continued my productive life and pushing to my best self, until I started again meeting women , but this time women were more open and make it more easy for me, also I was more selective and looking more realistically on the chances not like just mass approaching
 
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