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Anyone else ever taken a break from game?

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I'm in the process of focusing on launching the website for me and my friends own buisness which is a SEO marketing agency and at the same time I'm applying for more higher end jobs since my current one just doesn't pay enough.

At the same time i have signed up for a Gym membership, I'm thinking of taking a 6 month break from game and cold approach to focus and improve myself before i get back out there.

Anyone else done this before?
 

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Good man.

I doubt more than 5% of men consistently cold approach for any significant period of time in their lives. It's not a commonplace activity. Social circles allow for more trust and comfort, and online dating at least spares you the embarrassment of public rejection.
 

zekko

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If you're asking if I've ever been too busy for dating, absolutely. Higher priorities and all.
 

wifehunter

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I just switch games to keep my brain in the zone.

 

mrgoodstuff

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I'm in the process of focusing on launching the website for me and my friends own buisness which is a SEO marketing agency and at the same time I'm applying for more higher end jobs since my current one just doesn't pay enough.

At the same time i have signed up for a Gym membership, I'm thinking of taking a 6 month break from game and cold approach to focus and improve myself before i get back out there.

Anyone else done this before?
Yep! Don't talk to anyone. It resents your mindset to what is important to YOU.
 
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evan12

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I'm in the process of focusing on launching the website for me and my friends own buisness which is a SEO marketing agency and at the same time I'm applying for more higher end jobs since my current one just doesn't pay enough.

At the same time i have signed up for a Gym membership, I'm thinking of taking a 6 month break from game and cold approach to focus and improve myself before i get back out there.

Anyone else done this before?
In the days when I was single , I have took some rest from the game and women in general, I felt my self esteem improved, and start seeing my self more of value. Learned read some books ,improved my health.
I think in today life when playing dating game for most men is like playing on hard mode, you really need some rest to re-charge and re-discover yourself.
 

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In the days when I was single , I have took some rest from the game and women in general, I felt my self esteem improved, and start seeing my self more of value. Learned read some books ,improved my health.
I think in today life when playing dating game for most men is like playing on hard mode, you really need some rest to re-charge and re-discover yourself.
Where you able to reinject yourself back into women after being away for some time WITHOUT losing confidence and energy?
 

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Good man.

I doubt more than 5% of men consistently cold approach for any significant period of time in their lives. It's not a commonplace activity. Social circles allow for more trust and comfort, and online dating at least spares you the embarrassment of public rejection.
Yeah you can burnt out pretty quickly, I knew one guy who did it daily for years and now he hates women. It's not healthy.
 

Georgepithyou

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In the days when I was single , I have took some rest from the game and women in general, I felt my self esteem improved, and start seeing my self more of value. Learned read some books ,improved my health.
I think in today life when playing dating game for most men is like playing on hard mode, you really need some rest to re-charge and re-discover yourself.
Yes that's exactly how i feel like i need to recharge and rediscover myself before getting back out there
 

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Before the Pua conmunity, there was no such thing as “game” as being separate from life. You simply showed up to your social environment whether it was school or work, dominate and climb the ladder, and fvck girls in the process. What am I missing here? Are most of you living in a vacuum where women do not exist?

At the very least you should always have a social life that has women in it during the weekends.

Game is not separate from life. Because there are women everywhere, game is interwoven into life.

Even if I try to avoid women, they will just end up negging me for attention. Last time I checked, they were half the population and any high value male is automatically a target.
 
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Where you able to reinject yourself back into women after being away for some time WITHOUT losing confidence and energy?
Yes, actually that period changed my personality, while I lost some of my social confidant due to less going out , but I gained a more feeling of self worth. Also I start recovering my old hobbies that were making me happy.
Started improving my self like running everyday, eating healthy , etc .
Was I happy ? no, as I know I am missing having the family , but this time I was swallowing it like a man, I continued my productive life and pushing to my best self, until I started again meeting women , but this time women were more open and make it more easy for me, also I was more selective and looking more realistically on the chances not like just mass approaching
 
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