"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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anyone else drunk text?

garruk

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sometimes when I get really drunk at a party or club and there aren't any girls I'd like to hit on I just start texting girls I know. like yesterday I randomly texted this girl to hang out this weekend at 130am. haha, she didn't text me back even though I know she used to be somewhat interested.

anywyas do you guys ever do this?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Here is the thing - 99% of the time, drunk texts are "i am a big vagina and cant close the deal sober but I like you and have an excuse, so here"

and they will most likely fail.


BUT, and this is interesting, with some girls who are say on the fence, or like you a bit, it can actually do wonders in progressing things.

my all time favorite text was to this girl i hung out with twice in college, but we never got to sex.

I texted drunk off my ass at a party:

"You. my bed. Now"


she replied:

"Oh, someone is confident"

so I texted:

"I am out, make it in 10 mins"


and she replied:

"ok call me when you get back"



so sometimes you can pull it off, i dont recommend it but once in awhile its not bad, especially if the other person has been drinking too and u can be honest at that point
 

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I am horrible at it, but its mostly because I don't take my life too seriously. Even when I had a girlfriend, I would drunk text other friends with stupid quotes from movies, or just some trash talk regarding their sports teams. The idea is that I am still keeping in touch with people, even if it is a round about way of doing it.
 

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See i'm glad i'm not the only tard who send's these damm desperate drunken texts to his ex's and everything when he's drunk.

But i will raise you and your drunk texts and put in Facebook status messages aswell... damm i've had to deleat people off my facebook cause when i'm drunk i put stupid **** on there.:eek:
 

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Demonicale said:
See i'm glad i'm not the only tard who send's these damm desperate drunken texts to his ex's and everything when he's drunk.

But i will raise you and your drunk texts and put in Facebook status messages aswell... damm i've had to deleat people off my facebook cause when i'm drunk i put stupid **** on there.:eek:
ok that is just insecurity and desperation.


my drunk texts are like "ok i am drunken courage right now, lets see what happens"


not cry for attention or texting YOUR EX, are you serious? leave that to chicks
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Amazing said:
Here is the thing - 99% of the time, drunk texts are "i am a big vagina and cant close the deal sober but I like you and have an excuse, so here"

hm you are definately right about this.
 

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Yeah this was a recurring problem for about a month recently. Facebook too. I get it into my head that "I shouldn't care what people think of me", and when I'm drunk, thats enough reasoning to send away stupid ****, even if its weird and creepy.

"Weird and creepy? Send it! Kill the inner ***** in you and send it!"

Weird logic, but there ya go.

Thankfully I've stopped with the weird sh*t and if I do now, its stuff with an actual purpose like Amazing mentioned (though not as bold as his .. yet). I did get a girl over the next night through drunk texting.
 
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