"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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anyone else drunk text?

garruk

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sometimes when I get really drunk at a party or club and there aren't any girls I'd like to hit on I just start texting girls I know. like yesterday I randomly texted this girl to hang out this weekend at 130am. haha, she didn't text me back even though I know she used to be somewhat interested.

anywyas do you guys ever do this?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Here is the thing - 99% of the time, drunk texts are "i am a big vagina and cant close the deal sober but I like you and have an excuse, so here"

and they will most likely fail.


BUT, and this is interesting, with some girls who are say on the fence, or like you a bit, it can actually do wonders in progressing things.

my all time favorite text was to this girl i hung out with twice in college, but we never got to sex.

I texted drunk off my ass at a party:

"You. my bed. Now"


she replied:

"Oh, someone is confident"

so I texted:

"I am out, make it in 10 mins"


and she replied:

"ok call me when you get back"



so sometimes you can pull it off, i dont recommend it but once in awhile its not bad, especially if the other person has been drinking too and u can be honest at that point
 

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I am horrible at it, but its mostly because I don't take my life too seriously. Even when I had a girlfriend, I would drunk text other friends with stupid quotes from movies, or just some trash talk regarding their sports teams. The idea is that I am still keeping in touch with people, even if it is a round about way of doing it.
 

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See i'm glad i'm not the only tard who send's these damm desperate drunken texts to his ex's and everything when he's drunk.

But i will raise you and your drunk texts and put in Facebook status messages aswell... damm i've had to deleat people off my facebook cause when i'm drunk i put stupid **** on there.:eek:
 

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Demonicale said:
See i'm glad i'm not the only tard who send's these damm desperate drunken texts to his ex's and everything when he's drunk.

But i will raise you and your drunk texts and put in Facebook status messages aswell... damm i've had to deleat people off my facebook cause when i'm drunk i put stupid **** on there.:eek:
ok that is just insecurity and desperation.


my drunk texts are like "ok i am drunken courage right now, lets see what happens"


not cry for attention or texting YOUR EX, are you serious? leave that to chicks
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Amazing said:
Here is the thing - 99% of the time, drunk texts are "i am a big vagina and cant close the deal sober but I like you and have an excuse, so here"

hm you are definately right about this.
 

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Yeah this was a recurring problem for about a month recently. Facebook too. I get it into my head that "I shouldn't care what people think of me", and when I'm drunk, thats enough reasoning to send away stupid ****, even if its weird and creepy.

"Weird and creepy? Send it! Kill the inner ***** in you and send it!"

Weird logic, but there ya go.

Thankfully I've stopped with the weird sh*t and if I do now, its stuff with an actual purpose like Amazing mentioned (though not as bold as his .. yet). I did get a girl over the next night through drunk texting.
 
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