"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Anyone could help me out with this?

NotaNewbie

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How do you approach a girl.. with a lot of males around her (You know what im talking about ... those AFCs that come to the club with 3 of their friends and 1 decides to talk her and the 3 other tags along and they F around with her while she is really interested in you and been eyeing you all night) These are the type of guys i hate who never makes a move but stays around the HB even when she moves to a different spot they follow her around and ask to hold her to purse and what not..
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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CrunchyNut

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Just do it; show that you are better than them.
 

NotaNewbie

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You just want me to go up and say "Move aside fellas i want to talk to this lady right here" then what? what if they get jealous and wants to fight me?
 

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then stand your ground like a man. unless you're too craven. then stay home and polish the bishop.
 

Obsidian

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These are called c0ck-blocks, and the orthodox strategy in this situation is to disarm them. Of course, it works a lot better if the c0ck-blocks are girls, but you can do your best to charm the guys as well (while mostly ignoring the main target). Then once all the c0ck-blocks like you, you move in on the main target, who you were previously neg-hitting (by ignoring her).
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Dannyrt34

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How about

"I seen you checking me out, miss. you're busted, come with me!"

Take her by the hand, Pull her aside and chat-chit as normal. If the dudes get jealous, they suck. In that case, stand your ground, they will come off as the insecure ones.
 

Jack McCrack

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Run in there arms swinging and teeth gnashing

they'll get intimidated and cower in fear
 

Snow Plowman

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Its called a Mixed set

This is very basic and you should actually search around for the solution.

Really its all about your personality which dictates how you'd actually go about doing this. The very basic and most general way is chatting up the guy first and ignoring the girl. Do your basic attracting stuff to the girl while befriending, ignoring, or blowing the guy out. (AMOG)

Now due to my personality the way I do this is I walk up say something to the girl and then just say "Group hug" or anything retarded and I'll just pull her from the group and kind of semi isolate her.

Most guys that were in set when I approached usually never do nothing, or just sit there and watch.
 
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