"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Anyone could help me out with this?

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How do you approach a girl.. with a lot of males around her (You know what im talking about ... those AFCs that come to the club with 3 of their friends and 1 decides to talk her and the 3 other tags along and they F around with her while she is really interested in you and been eyeing you all night) These are the type of guys i hate who never makes a move but stays around the HB even when she moves to a different spot they follow her around and ask to hold her to purse and what not..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Just do it; show that you are better than them.
 
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You just want me to go up and say "Move aside fellas i want to talk to this lady right here" then what? what if they get jealous and wants to fight me?
 
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then stand your ground like a man. unless you're too craven. then stay home and polish the bishop.
 
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These are called c0ck-blocks, and the orthodox strategy in this situation is to disarm them. Of course, it works a lot better if the c0ck-blocks are girls, but you can do your best to charm the guys as well (while mostly ignoring the main target). Then once all the c0ck-blocks like you, you move in on the main target, who you were previously neg-hitting (by ignoring her).
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How about

"I seen you checking me out, miss. you're busted, come with me!"

Take her by the hand, Pull her aside and chat-chit as normal. If the dudes get jealous, they suck. In that case, stand your ground, they will come off as the insecure ones.
 
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Run in there arms swinging and teeth gnashing

they'll get intimidated and cower in fear
 
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Its called a Mixed set

This is very basic and you should actually search around for the solution.

Really its all about your personality which dictates how you'd actually go about doing this. The very basic and most general way is chatting up the guy first and ignoring the girl. Do your basic attracting stuff to the girl while befriending, ignoring, or blowing the guy out. (AMOG)

Now due to my personality the way I do this is I walk up say something to the girl and then just say "Group hug" or anything retarded and I'll just pull her from the group and kind of semi isolate her.

Most guys that were in set when I approached usually never do nothing, or just sit there and watch.
 
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