"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Anyone could help me out with this?

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How do you approach a girl.. with a lot of males around her (You know what im talking about ... those AFCs that come to the club with 3 of their friends and 1 decides to talk her and the 3 other tags along and they F around with her while she is really interested in you and been eyeing you all night) These are the type of guys i hate who never makes a move but stays around the HB even when she moves to a different spot they follow her around and ask to hold her to purse and what not..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Just do it; show that you are better than them.
 
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You just want me to go up and say "Move aside fellas i want to talk to this lady right here" then what? what if they get jealous and wants to fight me?
 
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then stand your ground like a man. unless you're too craven. then stay home and polish the bishop.
 
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These are called c0ck-blocks, and the orthodox strategy in this situation is to disarm them. Of course, it works a lot better if the c0ck-blocks are girls, but you can do your best to charm the guys as well (while mostly ignoring the main target). Then once all the c0ck-blocks like you, you move in on the main target, who you were previously neg-hitting (by ignoring her).
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How about

"I seen you checking me out, miss. you're busted, come with me!"

Take her by the hand, Pull her aside and chat-chit as normal. If the dudes get jealous, they suck. In that case, stand your ground, they will come off as the insecure ones.
 
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Run in there arms swinging and teeth gnashing

they'll get intimidated and cower in fear
 
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Its called a Mixed set

This is very basic and you should actually search around for the solution.

Really its all about your personality which dictates how you'd actually go about doing this. The very basic and most general way is chatting up the guy first and ignoring the girl. Do your basic attracting stuff to the girl while befriending, ignoring, or blowing the guy out. (AMOG)

Now due to my personality the way I do this is I walk up say something to the girl and then just say "Group hug" or anything retarded and I'll just pull her from the group and kind of semi isolate her.

Most guys that were in set when I approached usually never do nothing, or just sit there and watch.
 
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