Poonani Maker
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Anyone been to Phuket in Thailand?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
SharinganUser
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Yeah I was there two years ago. The weather was amazing but that's about it. You have to fight your way through hordes of German and American sex tourists, and ladyboys just to get to the beach. If you are set on going there I highly suggest renting a motor bike and going to the less densely populated areas.
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If you care about culture, go to Chiang Mai. Lots of temples, people are relaxed and not trying to rip you off all the time, lots of things to do (and you can meet RELAXED tourists).
If you're more the party-hard flatrate-boozing kind of guy, yeah, go to Phuket or one of the party islands (ko phi phi or what was the name).
If you're more the party-hard flatrate-boozing kind of guy, yeah, go to Phuket or one of the party islands (ko phi phi or what was the name).
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I'm there right now. I think its pretty good. Yes there are those things as mentioned but not as bad. I do find you also get lots of people asking you to buy stuff as you walk past shops. Apart from that its quite a relaxed atmosphere, the whether is good, everything is really cheap and it's a beautiful place. :woo: :woo: 