"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Anyone approached a hot girl in their building?

Dole

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I was wondering if anyone would share a story or two of how they approached a hot girl that lives in their apartment building?? How did you approach her, what did you say to her and how you carried on after you met her...

Open to hear some suggestions as well...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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xdreamz

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I would pay attention to the body gestures you're giving off. Approaching head on you want to face her square with obviously something indirect. You're not gona say "Hey wana be my friend?" but you want to make it as innocent of an approach as possible. Say she's sitting down on the grass and you're walking by, ask her if she's ok sitting there. while still going on your merry way you might want to throw her something else indirect. some good ideas are making her want to help you with something, asking about her immediate surrounding and how it relates to them for example "is that your car?", anything will work if you're skilled enough even the old school "do you know how to get from point A to point B?" as long as you continue to drive the conversation towards her.
 

Galactus

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I don't live in an apartment building anymore, but when I did, I approached every new woman I saw. Just smile, walk right up, put out your hand and say something like, "You must be new, hi my name's Dole." or "I know I haven't seen you around here before, cuz I woulda remembered you" or "How are you? My name's Dole. Did you move in recently?" Or whatever.

Ask her what she likes to do for fun. Then while she's answering, cut in and ask her if she'd like to chill with you sometime and watch a movie in your crib. Or hers, it doesn't matter. Yours would be better though.

Don't bother asking her on a date. I never did that sh1t. They would come over, and we'd talk and watch maybe 20 minutes of the movie and we'd be fvcking.

When you talk to her for the first time, let her understand that you're interested in her for more than just hanging out. Reach out and touch her shoulder or upper arm at least once during the short conversation. I'm assuming you know how to do that stuff without her wanting to pepper spray you.
 

Mr. Fantastic

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Well I kinda cheated this approach. My sister was chatting it up with this new chick (HB8). So what I did was approached them and said "you shouldn't talk to her, she is a bad influence" then picked her up, threw her over my shoulder and sat her down at a table and got her #.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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